My boyfriend blames me for only wanting 1 kid in the future while he say he wants 3? He said he needs to prolong his family? And he has no choice?

[Deimy]

[itsannalee]

You body your rules, if u want give birth 1 just get 1. If he doesn’t like it, let him get another mom for his others kid.
Just kidding, my don’t date a man who can’t even stand by himself, in the future he will always drag his family in any situation.

[itsannalee]

Get a man who wants to be husband and father. Not the one who just wants to have wife and kids, he sounds selfish and red flag.

[Deimy]

Yes exactly for me this is a red flag and that he does not have a job but just spends money on playing golf saying he will succeed... and I often say he is not realistic

[Adel50]

@itsannalee What do you call a man with a wife and kids?

[Anonymous]

Then you either both compromise or he finds a girl who wants the same just as you find a man who wants the same. Not that hard. You two aren’t married so even better.

[Avicenna]

Tell him to have one and see if he wants another before making plans for three.

[OlderAndWiser]

"He has no choice?" Can you please explain?

[bowenw]

It sounds like it is time he finds a new girlfriend that he can control while you find yourself a new boyfriend that is on the same page as you about the number or accepts your choice.

[Fireguy17]

That can be a deal breaker, so if he is from at 3, and you are firm at 1 and there is no comprising then the writing is on the wall and sadly it is time to move on.
Being quilted into doing something causes a lot of regrets later.

[loveslongnails]

You better figure this out before you get married, if you are planning to, and certainly before you have any kids at all. This is a disaster waiting to happen.

[AmeerX]

You should follow his lead on having children. I think along your bfs lines. And if he wants 3 he should be married to you by now. Tell him to stop wasting your time

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Tell him you need to sit down and communicate with him about this matter.

[LiamJHayden]

The couple has to agree. You don't. If you two can't reach a compromise, move on.

[jahaims]

Don't reproduce. You can't even handle asking a question

[Anonymous]

If you're dead set on 1 and he really wants 3 then maybe you two shouldn't be together.

[MasterKS]

Tell him to buy some from market, its festival sale on! LOL!

[Anonymous]

He sounds selfish and dumb.