Why my boyfriend texts that he still feels of and after couple hour changes his mood to ‘content’ in the app?

[Anonymous]

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that's definitely strange behavior from your boyfriend. A few possibilities come to mind:

- He might have bipolar disorder or some kind of mood disorder where his feelings change rapidly. That would explain the quick shifts from sad to content.

- He could just be an indecisive person by nature and second-guesses how he really feels a lot. Like testing the waters by saying he's sad first.

- It's possible he's being manipulative on purpose to get your sympathy when he says he's sad, then backs out of it to seem "fine" once you check on him. That wouldn't be cool.

- He might be really anxious about the relationship and gets in his feelings easily, then talks himself out of it. But he needs to work on communicating better.

- I'd consider if he could be asking for attention or validation through doing that. Playing games isn't healthy.

Ultimately, him refusing to explain the behavior is kind of a red flag. I'd tell him it confuses and worries you, so he needs to open up about what's really going on. If he keeps deflecting, that shows a lack of trust and maturity on his part. You deserve better than drama and mixed signals, girl! Consider having a serious chat.

[Avicenna]

You really need to ask him

[RavVid]

feels of... ? This is not making sense.

[Asker]

Off!

[RavVid]

Ah. Well I guess he could feel off but feel better after a couple of hours later..