Why do men get mad when women reject them because they are in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I have had this happen a couple times, and I don't get why a guy would be upset about this? So you mean you want me to cheat on him with you? What kind of woman am I then if all it takes is someone flirting with me, to destroy my own relationship?

Second, yes, I am aware, a lot of women say this even if they aren't in a relationship, but they don't know you, and you don't know them, and they aren't obligated to go out with you....just because you ask...so what does it matter then? It's the kindness way to say no, because some men also can't take no for what it is.

[incorrected]

I can't say I ever got mad over rejection or being informed that a girl/woman is already hitched. Sometimes I felt a bit sheepishly awkward, but was always polite about it. Some men can't handle rejection for whatever reason, either because they're the worst kind of incel or just narcissists who need to grow up emotionally (if it's even possible for them).

[Anonymous]

For the same reason when men reject women even though she has no real interest in him they get angry.

I'm certainly not defending a guy who's married and does this. But I both cases it's narcissism.

[Nikki1989]

Men are easily triggered by rejection for ANY reason.

[ProbablyClueless]

This is soemthing you'd be better off asking one such man directly.

[DerekC321]

Some guys can't handle disappointment, ie, they haven't really grown up yet. And some never do.