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"EVERYBODY is entitled to their feelings" just not guys eh. Because anger my friend is a "feeling"
@ChiTown33 so if you liked me and I didn't like you, that's something to be angry about? Now what if I liked you but you didn't like me? Does that entitled ME to be angry? Men act like they're the only ones that get rejected or turned down or have a right to say who they'd date or who they wouldn't...I bet you'd say I was too heavy to date... But if a woman would say she don't want to date a heavy guy, then she's a horrible bitch... The double standards tho 🙄 smh
Ask a question then don't let me answer it. LolYou really need to stop lumping all guys together 3B. It just makes you sound bitter. Read my post and you'll better understand my stance. I just don't get why if you reject a guy he can't be angry about it. If I reject a woman understand why she doesn't want to talk to me after that. I ain't even mad.
@ChiTown33 I'm not lumping all men the same... So don't say I am.. thanks... I get being disappointed as I said... But why angry? I wouldn't be angry if someone didn't have those kind of feelings for me... I'd appreciate they were honest and respectful with it, then the guys (SOME not ALL) that won't like a girl but still use her for sex... Again people can't help who they fall for our don't... So why waste being angry or bitter about it🤷 someone lies to you, cheats on you, uses you, hurts you those things I can see being angry about... And yeah you don't have to talk to someone after that, but more from not wanting to be around someone that ain't into you then anger..
Oh and why would I be bitter? I'm not single because I couldn't get someone... I'm single because my hubby died and they way people are these days with the B's I'd rather live with the 20 years I had with a great man than put up with the BS people be on these days
@WowwGirl Some people just don't get it smh 🤷
I hear ya 🤷
Once again you're one sided 3B. Problem is you don't even see it. You think it's OK for a woman to lead a guy on but not OK for a guy to lead a woman on. SMH 🙄Being a woman you might be uncapable of understanding a guys feelings (yes we have them) if a woman sends you signals of interest then rejects you in natural to get angry. Don't tell me as a woman this wouldn't anger you if a guy did this to you. But since you want to muddy this up and elevate it by throwing (sex and using people)Why would I ever feel bad for a woman who is too dumb or ( too up in her feelings) to see a guy does NOT give a s***about her? No no guy should do this! But no women should lead a guy on either something you clearly condoan! So your opinion is pretty clear to me. Women matter, guys don'!I don't know if your bitter. But such an opinion clearly comes off that way. But I forgive you. 🙂
@ChiTown33 where TF did I condone women leading men on? Again please don't put words in my mouth I didn't say... I don't condone anyone leading anyone on, period... But ummm correct me if I'm wrong, was this question not about if someone gets rejected? Not lead on? "Do you think men getting angry about women rejecting them is justified?"
So now you're suggesting no woman has EVER led a man on? Wow!It's equally or MORE relevant to the questions than guys who pretend to like women just to sleep with them. And you know it. But it doesn't support your argument. So you disregard it.
@ChiTown33 again, why do you keep saying things I didn't say? Show me where I said that? I think I said I wouldn't approve of a woman or man leading anyone on, and saying that wasn't the topic of this post... But obviously you're not reading or comprehending anything I say cuz you too busy putting words in my mouth... So pointless to continue... But, enjoy your weekend😊
No I'm saying you muddy up the argument. I try to hold a mirror up to you to try to show you your bias. I don't think your bad person 3B I just don't think you always see it. You're a solid voice of reason on here. But being a women you can't see your bias. 🙂You have a good weekend to!
Unless she was a dick.
To clarify, most feminists are okay with men approaching... they aren't okay with men who are inappropriate or too aggressive, especially if you use "approaching" as a synonym for harassment.
Of course. But you have to see that a large majority of men who struggle with approaching have ZERO of these toxic traits.They're just shy awkward men. And shy awkward men make women uncomfortable.The only way for these men to cease being shy and awkward, is to approach and interact with women.These men fear to do so, lest they be judged and labeled as "male harassers."Us men are not born knowing how to be around girls. It only happens with experience.We see that women are angry about men, we know we are not assholes like other men. But we fear to make girls uncomfortable. We respect and love women and only wish for you to be comfortable in our presence. I know I'm not the only one lol.
And "most feminists" I think is a meaningless term.You can't know what any individual feminist believes.I've read plenty of feminist literature. I dont see feminists in the wild adhering to the scientific views brought about by high level feminist in scientific fields such as anthropology, or other fields like sociology.I see girls, who never read one ounce of literature, cursing men to the high heavens.You're worried about the assholes. They are assholes. I'm not worried about them. They will do what they will do I can't stop them.But when it comes to men who are hateful and resentful towards women, I think this is the root of it.We feel like we must approach you and display confidence to attract you.At the same time, we feel like vile harassers that women can't stand.
And I know you girls keep repeating "it's only the assholes who abuse and harass us we dont like!"I dont know about that lol.Girls like me. I'm tall and handsome and my voice is stupid deep.Girls would approach, flirt with me only to find out I was shy. And treat me like a creep afterwards.I was never a creep and never harassed or abused any woman in my life. Yet I was treated as though I was a creep by girls who APPROACHED ME!Now I know most men dont have that privilege as I've had. For them, it's even worse.Like, being a respectful man who treats women well doesn't mean anything at all. If you're less than a certain level of male/female interpersonal skills, you get treated like a freak or a creep or harasser. Really I've lived that myself.
But if they guy won't leave the girl alone or keeps asking her then she has every right to be mean.
Ikr it really says a lot about them as a person, and that they're insecure.
This goes for guys and girls