Angry that they don’t see value in you yes. If enough don’t value you then you gotta get validation in what you do and sometimes no matter what you do you can’t save a hoe. But at the same time you don’t deserve their feelings. The worlds not perfect and neither are people. If women don’t see you don’t see them and move on with your life. Half the women today will die alone and childless anyway.
That’s enough justice.
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No it isn’t justified. The same way a guy wants to be with a girl he’s attracted to physically, girls have that same right to. But this is nothing new, women/females in general will reject guys more likely. I do think girls nowadays and women in general have more suitors, more guys they get hit on, higher expectations. I got blocked by girls just for asking “can I ask you something?”. To me that’s rude, and that is NOT justified. Girls aren’t Gods, they are human beings, but I’m not going to submit and allow someone to mistreat me. I’ll respect her views if she says no thank you and I’ll walk away or cut contact with her. But if she’s being a bitch then I will tell her off and block her then.
Tough scenario because philosophically speaking. Ideally you get better not bitter. Emotions are what they are. You can't judge them but can't sulk in them either.
If you feel anger you can't necessarily control that. But acting in anger you can control and in the vaaast majority of cases it's unjustified. Few are justified.
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Most cases no, but if a woman rejects a man in a mean way then yes. Nice way: I'm sorry, Im just not interested or No but thanks for asking Mean way: No why would I go out with someone like you or No you're too ugly/stupid/ fat/skinny or anything else for me.
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But if they guy won't leave the girl alone or keeps asking her then she has every right to be mean.
No, anger toward an individual is not justified. Anger would be an indication that he was a psycho. Disappointment and perhaps hurt would be the more appropriate reactions. The place for anger would be toward females as a collective, because most of them make stupid and self-destructive choices until they are about 30. Anger should not be directed toward an individual.
No. I don't date emotionally unstable people, much less associate with them. Getting angry over not being able to bang whoever you ask is dumb and manipulative.
It can be infuriating but otherwise move on from it and then if she’s like “oh can we just be friends” at that point that’s just patronizing. Say no to that because at that point it’s just friendzoning which is the worst thing that can happen to any guy.
I've gotten pissy because of the reasons some women gave. Things like me lacking empathy aren't good reasons when fucking 50 Shades of Grey and Beautiful Disaster are as popular as they are.
If you don't find me attractive enough to overlook my personality, just fucking say so.
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Of course not.
There is a name you know for someone who can't take no for an answer, well some of them at least and that is a rapist.
No means no and if you cannot accept that then you should have absolutely nothing to do with dating. (and no Im not suggesting that you become a rapist, I am suggesting you grow up)
I once read one story in reddit where a chick manipulated a guy into believing that she liked him, and when he confessed, she rejected him and made fun of him in front of her friends, the guy just ran away from the situation embarrassed.
It kind of depends on how it goes down. I've had it where they say and do all the things a girl would do that likes a guy then get left for some other dude with no explanation. Are you helping your case by yelling at her? I don't know. I've never done it, but I see listen to my guy friends yell and bitch at their girlfriends all the time. The only difference is they have someone and I don't, so it clearly does something!
No! However, most people are ruled by their emotions; not logic. You would think a fat plumbers helper would know better than to ask a beauty queen but some guys only know a beauty queen is who they want and after all, they love her, so that should be enough for her to reject all the hot guys because they don't love her as much.
There are always some girls who are kidding with you, but you aren't obligated to respect them or talking with them seriously. Approaching such girls is the stupidest thing you can do and If you did, it's solely your fault. If you're so pitifully disparate to take every bait someone tosses in front of you, there is a lot of things you should change in your life.
Nah it’s pointless and childish, like a kid throwing a tantrum.
it’s also counterproductive as the guy will eventually resent women and this will make it harder to connect with them, this in turn builds that resentment.
Never thought about it much because if I don’t get picked up, nothing is going anywhere. I some guy is foolish enough to hang his ass out there with the vultures, well he might lose an eye. If he gets angry, maybe he should stop trying.
Only when it involves the woman lying, or leading them on, or some sort of deceit like that. It happens very often but to be angry about rejection in general doesn't make a lot of sense.
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Angry that they don’t see value in you yes. If enough don’t value you then you gotta get validation in what you do and sometimes no matter what you do you can’t save a hoe. But at the same time you don’t deserve their feelings. The worlds not perfect and neither are people. If women don’t see you don’t see them and move on with your life. Half the women today will die alone and childless anyway.
That’s enough justice.
No it isn’t justified. The same way a guy wants to be with a girl he’s attracted to physically, girls have that same right to. But this is nothing new, women/females in general will reject guys more likely. I do think girls nowadays and women in general have more suitors, more guys they get hit on, higher expectations. I got blocked by girls just for asking “can I ask you something?”. To me that’s rude, and that is NOT justified. Girls aren’t Gods, they are human beings, but I’m not going to submit and allow someone to mistreat me. I’ll respect her views if she says no thank you and I’ll walk away or cut contact with her. But if she’s being a bitch then I will tell her off and block her then.
Tough scenario because philosophically speaking. Ideally you get better not bitter. Emotions are what they are. You can't judge them but can't sulk in them either.
If you feel anger you can't necessarily control that. But acting in anger you can control and in the vaaast majority of cases it's unjustified. Few are justified.
Most cases no, but if a woman rejects a man in a mean way then yes.
Nice way: I'm sorry, Im just not interested or No but thanks for asking
Mean way: No why would I go out with someone like you or No you're too ugly/stupid/ fat/skinny or anything else for me.
But if they guy won't leave the girl alone or keeps asking her then she has every right to be mean.
No, anger toward an individual is not justified.
Anger would be an indication that he was a psycho.
Disappointment and perhaps hurt would be the more appropriate reactions.
The place for anger would be toward females as a collective, because most of them make stupid and self-destructive choices until they are about 30.
Anger should not be directed toward an individual.
No. I don't date emotionally unstable people, much less associate with them. Getting angry over not being able to bang whoever you ask is dumb and manipulative.
Ikr it really says a lot about them as a person, and that they're insecure.
This goes for guys and girls
Agreed.
It can be infuriating but otherwise move on from it and then if she’s like “oh can we just be friends” at that point that’s just patronizing. Say no to that because at that point it’s just friendzoning which is the worst thing that can happen to any guy.
Depends.
I've gotten pissy because of the reasons some women gave. Things like me lacking empathy aren't good reasons when fucking 50 Shades of Grey and Beautiful Disaster are as popular as they are.
If you don't find me attractive enough to overlook my personality, just fucking say so.
Of course not.
There is a name you know for someone who can't take no for an answer, well some of them at least and that is a rapist.
No means no and if you cannot accept that then you should have absolutely nothing to do with dating. (and no Im not suggesting that you become a rapist, I am suggesting you grow up)
A question as broad as this I'll go for B.
I once read one story in reddit where a chick manipulated a guy into believing that she liked him, and when he confessed, she rejected him and made fun of him in front of her friends, the guy just ran away from the situation embarrassed.
If I were him I would be pretty pissed off.
It kind of depends on how it goes down. I've had it where they say and do all the things a girl would do that likes a guy then get left for some other dude with no explanation. Are you helping your case by yelling at her? I don't know. I've never done it, but I see listen to my guy friends yell and bitch at their girlfriends all the time. The only difference is they have someone and I don't, so it clearly does something!
No! However, most people are ruled by their emotions; not logic. You would think a fat plumbers helper would know better than to ask a beauty queen but some guys only know a beauty queen is who they want and after all, they love her, so that should be enough for her to reject all the hot guys because they don't love her as much.
There are always some girls who are kidding with you, but you aren't obligated to respect them or talking with them seriously. Approaching such girls is the stupidest thing you can do and If you did, it's solely your fault. If you're so pitifully disparate to take every bait someone tosses in front of you, there is a lot of things you should change in your life.
No, that incel shit isn’t ever justifiable.. accept it and move on. Don’t do creepy/stalker-y shit.
If women have to accept being rejected, then so do men.
Nah it’s pointless and childish, like a kid throwing a tantrum.
it’s also counterproductive as the guy will eventually resent women and this will make it harder to connect with them, this in turn builds that resentment.
so don’t hate.
I don't see why a guy should get mad at a girl for rejecting him unless she was incredibly rude and insulted him.
Never thought about it much because if I don’t get picked up, nothing is going anywhere. I some guy is foolish enough to hang his ass out there with the vultures, well he might lose an eye. If he gets angry, maybe he should stop trying.
Only when it involves the woman lying, or leading them on, or some sort of deceit like that. It happens very often but to be angry about rejection in general doesn't make a lot of sense.
Bro we get rejected sometimes too. Just cause someone uses for u sex that doesn’t really make it any better.
Never. Sure, it hurts, but I can't really be mad because someone doesn't feel the way I do. It's just bad luck