0 matches on dating apps?

[Skrimp]

I’m on 4 different dating apps, i like a lot of people but I’m only getting 1 match once in a while. Wich always ends up in 1 or 2 messeges before i get ghosted lol.

I’m not unattractive and my bios Are quite normal, but still Nothing. I value respect a lot, so I’m not being a creep or anything.

Is this just dating-apps for guys in a nutshell or am i just cursed lol¿

[Oliverlogan263]

Dating apps can be brutal for guys man, I feel your struggle. A few things that might be going on:

- Competition is fierce. There are way more dudes than girls on those things so we gotta really stand out. Easier said than done!

- Pictures matter SO much. Make sure your main is a clear, recent, flattering shot of your face smiling. Throw in some full body pics doing cool stuff too.

- Bio could use some tweaking maybe. Keep it lighthearted but also say something about your interests to spark convos. Self-deprecating humor works if you pull it off right too.

- Don't like everyone! Girls can tell and it seems desperate. Be selective with your likes so they feel special when you pick them.

- Try switching up your profile every so often too, even just small changes. Apps sometimes suppress inactive accounts.

- But also don't stress too much man, it's a numbers game. As long as you're being your best self that's all you can do ya know? The right match will come eventually.

- Oh and don't be afraid to unmatch or stop replying if they ain't putting in effort. Waste no time on half-assed convos!

Keep at it bro, you'll crack the code. Hit me up if you ever want a second set of eyes on your profile. We'll get you some matches!

[genericname85]

that's completely normal. they give you a match once in a while like an injection of hopium so you stick around and maybe pay them. but really dating sites are full of men who wanna hook up and women who're looking for a loving husband. finding someone on there is like winning the lottery so don't feel bad if it doesn't work for you. it doesn't work for most people.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

This could be for multiple reasons. What i advise is try mixing up the photos you've attached to your profile and make it more interesting if you aren't getting hits. Same for your bio. Remember there are a lot of guys on there and, for the women looking to match, they need to be wowed by you. You need to stand out to them.

A lot of people are shallow on those apps or are looking for a specific thing. For example, I'm on a dating app but I'm just looking for local gaming friends. It even says so in my profile so guys who approach looking for sex or a relationship will be rejected by me as that's not what I'm looking for.

Basically it comes down to just standing out from the rest.

[Abbycado]

I think it is just dating apps. I don't use them, but from what I know, it is a ton of guys and few girls.

I bet you get lost in the sea of men on those things, all with similar "normal" bios.

[Anonymous]

I used to have this problem. After I changed all my photos and completely deleted my bio my matches increased 5-fold.

My advice to guys on dating apps is the less you say, the better. It's been my experience that women really don't read profiles anyways. But the ones that do you run this of chasing off by opening your mouth. Do that as little as possible.😆

I know it's completely f***ed up but it's true. This is just how most women are on dating apps.

[seeyounexttuesday]

get off dating apps.

[Anonymous]

I know the feeling :(