What's wrong with me?

[Anonymous]

I feel like a problematic person, I can't build meaningful relationships with people, I mean I don't socialize, I don't mingle. I don't think I have social anxiety, because when I need to ask someone something I can ask them comfortably and I don't feel nervous when I'm in social situations, but I can never build meaningful, deep relationships, I can't succeed, I can't make new friends, I can't make a girlfriend, I can't flirt, which is the most upsetting point, I'm 19 years old and I've never had a girlfriend in my life, in fact I've never even had a girl who was my normal friend, I've always been distant to girls and as I got older, this situation started to hurt. This situation makes me feel very depressed

[Anonymous]

Ever read Dale Carnegie "how to win friends and influence people". I'm no t kidding.

Some people this comes naturally and some people have to work at it. People's favorite subject generally is themselves. Whenever you find yourself in a social situation make it a point to talk to people and ask them question about themselves. Compliment them if you like thier shoes for example ask where they got them. You'd be surprised how many people open up to you when you do this and the conversation you can get in.

[Asker]

I've already read this book, I've actually read more than one article, book, video on socialization, and it's not enough to help because I can never, ever put this information into practice, and because I can't put it into practice, after a while it's forgotten. So it doesn't work because I don't dare to put it into practice.

[strateguy632]

Yes, by isolating yourself for many years, you feel like girls are very different and far away.

But you shouldn't feel hopeless about it. just talk about your job with her.

[Asker]

I can't talk about anything, ANYTHING...