How can one know whether a person's interest in discussing personal topic is genuine curiosity or red flag for potential manipulation or oversharing?

[Being_a_good_Indian]

[Avicenna]

It’s often not clear, but over time you can figure it out

[ChiTown33]

It's probably the difference between asking and grilling. Like if they ask you question or a question with a followup. But if they grill you. Like a question with 10 follow ups I think that's a clear sign they searching for a red flag.

[Nikki1989]

On here, it is usually just a pervert wanting to get his rocks off.