My boyfriend says I won’t marry you. What should I do?

[Clarity2929]

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I asked him why, and he said he doesn’t see a long-term future with me because I’m a burden and a huge responsibility due to my loneliness and family problems.

[Vesuvius87]

He what? Oh no, he didn't.

After he basically denied you something very important and basically degraded you to just a girlfriend to have fun with (he directly told you he'll never marry you but will continue keeping you around as a girlfriend), you should update him to blocked, ex boyfriend. I was once told ''you're not ready for marriage'' and guess what, that's the last time I ever spoke to him. It was followed by a permanent block. Then 3 years later, I'm now married and pregnant.

[Vesuvius87]

He's degrading you to ''friends with benefits'' (hook-up) category right now. Dump him now.

[Nikki1989]

Don't deal with time-wasters. Meet someone else.

[AviatorTom]

If you want to get married, it's time to go shopping for a new boyfriend. It's highly unlikely he will change his opinion.

[moneymagnet24]

I think he is right you're burden re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[slatyb]

If you want to be married, you should stop wasting your time with him.

[slatyb]

He just said that you are "good enough for right now". In other words, he's happy to waste your time so he doesn't have to be alone, but when he meets someone he likes better, he's gone. He's using you. End this.

[Unit1]

I can smell the end of this relationship from here.

[LiamJHayden]

Dump him now. He's just using you.

[FunkyMonkee]

How does he KNOW you won't marry me?

[Anonymous]

Move on.