Everyone likes who they like, and I like who likes me,, is there a better ideology?

[shades777]

As a man I find it more peaceful just to continuously improve my quality of life, and just introduce myself to women to gauge their interest rather than chasing anyone, it's more peaceful

[SueShe]

At your age, you should not chase women anyway. Why would you even want to introduce yourself to women (in plural)? Is it because you are solely interested in getting into their pants? That is the impression I get when I read your question.

If you would be interested in a single woman for the purpose to have a committed relationship for the rest of your life, then you would not need that ideology.

Given this context, I can only say that I do not agree with it because it gives me the impression that you are only out there for the sake of fornication and not because of a long term relationship (30+ years).

[shades777]

At your age haha, ah to be young. An what if I do want some "action", I'm a man of course I want action. Thank you captain obvious