Why is it hard for the average guy to find a woman that doesn't have commitment problems?

[Anonymous]

As a guy I've always experienced this.

[MannMitAntworten]

It isn’t that they have commitment as much as they just don’t really want to commit till after 40 and still think they can have children yet realize the window has passed … and men wanting kids don’t want to wait for the woman who feels she needs to live the make believe instagram lifestyle before wanting to commit only to realize she can no longer have children so he tries to date younger which of course goes no where because she is busy, “living her best life” which leaves both he and her in later life alone wondering why the fun stopped with age. So then trey both try senior dating and she discovers he doesn’t want to spend the rest of his life and money paying to travel around the world with her so she still remains single and complains on tik tok while he eventually settles for a pragmatic single mom whose adult kids leave her with a bunch of grand kids she rather stay home with while he heads for a game of golf and cigars with friends.


Hence why I prefer a dog anymore. They are always happy to see you, peaceful to have around, and just love unconditionally. They don’t require much and demand nothing. They are always great company.

[Rahuliyer4977]

There are women who want to commit. I guess it is due to your circle of friends and culture. Broaden your circle a bit. You will find.

I am a gentleman in their late 40s. Married 20 years. I had a difficult time getting American women to notice me when I was single (I am American from Chicago). Maybe a little nerdy but American.

The minute I started looking overseas... primarily Asia... I found plenty of nice women who wanted to get to know me better. I even got one to commit... to the point I married her. We are still married today.

[alice55]

You're unlucky then because the problem is actually the reverse men nit wanting to commit especially in your age range 18 - 25.

[Chthou95]

You assume a lot of men even have the option to do that

[alice55]

@Chthou95 They may not have the option but it doesn't mean they don't want it, most ugly dude actually want to have ons and praise dude that do and excuse me but those are just toxic dude who make no effort as they don't actually want comitment. They're full on asholes ways worse than any good looking fuckboy.

[Jay-_-]

You just had a lot of bad experiences @alice55

[Chthou95]

They good looking tuckboy is worse since they succeed and get what they want from women and then shove that woman to the curve.

[LeatherDame]

Most women are interested in a commitment? Maybe it’s a problem of what’s being offered?

[Asker]

It's not really a man's fault for not having nepo family.

[LeatherDame]

Entitled trust fund boys need not apply. Money and nepotism isn’t it, work ethic sure is though. He doesn’t need to be rich , just dedicated

[Asker]

Really because most of them rejected me solo because of money and therefore did not earn enough for the liking.

[AviatorTom]

Basic biology makes women more selective (some would say picky) than men. If we men and women understood that and accepted it, life would be much better for all of us..

[Finchie40]

Because most people in general are selfish and want their cake and want to eat it to making it hard for any sex to trust and commit, Most people think grass is greener on the other side

[Purpleronnie]

Why would you assume that your experience is that of the average guy? …. Who is the ‘average guy’ ? …. I think you’re better of focusing on why YOU cannot find a woman who wants to commit to YOU … than asking a question that’s based on assumptions or any real definition.

[HighValue]

The majority of women are promiscuous and are interested in casual sex/friends with benefits/ons, not relationships regardless of how many women ignore data and statistics to push the LIE that it is the opposite.

My advice is to work on yourself, get in shape, especially for arms, get a decent job, pay off debt, then when you are a little older, visit different countries to find a good mate if you want an exclusive long term relationship. Avoid American women.

[Chthou95]

Because women have options and easily get bored. Women always want something new when the best thing was right in front of them to begin with

[Asker]

Sadly this is true,😔 very shortsighted of them , to ignore something that wants the best for them.

[slatyb]

After I divorced and starting dating, I never experienced this. Women were eager to form a permanent partnership with me.

[Asker]

You must make a lot 💰, & be funny as hell to them.

[slatyb]

I'm a good listener.

[Asker]

Women never cared if I was one. They're just bothered by how much I earn and what I look like. Which is why I remain single.

[slatyb]

I'm attractive for my age, but had no confidence in my 20's so I entered a very bad marriage. Then I divorced and was amazed that after three dates women were taking me to bed.

[Lliam]

Women have a similar problem finding guys who are interested in commitment. Most guys just want to fuck them.

[jahaims]

Most people aren't smart enough or mature enough to dig through the weeds. They know they are looking for a flower but don't know what a flower looks like.

[Nikki1989]

It is usually the other way around. Men will stray at the drop of a hat.

[KrakenAttackin]

Because modern women are obsessed with getting attention from dozens of guys at any one time.

[Anonymous]

There's no such thing as "commitment problems." There's only "don't want to commit with YOU!"

[Asker]

I'm afraid there is because sexual flings & pickiness wouldn't be a thing.

[Anonymous]

They always have multiple options on there inbox no matter the social media app they use

[Asker]

Yes women will tend to have more options than us.

[LiamJHayden]

I'm average and in almost all of my relationships I've been the one with commitment issues.

[Slim57]

Because you're looking in the sewage section of women

[Asker]

& were is non sewage section?

[Slim57]

In person through friends, coworkers, or family, social events that aren't concerts, bars, raves, clubs, or online

[Asker]

Sadly all my female connections are taken, coworkers also.

[David5668]

And naturally men don’t have this problem?🤔

[Asker]

Only when you are young mostly.

[paledreams]

Some women are so fickle 😆😁♀️

[hotman5]

your looking for the wrong kind of people

[Asker]

In what way?

[hotman5]

your looking for women with commitment issues you should look for loyal people there's many of them

[Asker]

I don't follow, I have been trying to find a loyal women but they seem to target beyond the middle class & average appearance men.

[Anonymous]

because Chad and Tyrone are still single

[Graptemys79]

I didn't know this was true.

[Bklynbadboy12]

This isn't true at all

[Asker]

Really now.😂

[ChooChooHaha]

I dont.

[Asker]

Unless I'm living in an area where it is mostly taken & non commit connection.♀️

[ChooChooHaha]

Maybe.

[ChooChooHaha]

Plus if you're really in your early 20s, and so are they, doesn't really surprise me.

[Asker]

I do have to wait till , I'm 30 for a committed relationship?

[ChooChooHaha]

No. You just need the right person.

[Anonymous]

Woman mostly wants is friends with benefits now