Why is dating an European men so hard? (Swiss German to be exact)😫?

[Anonymous]

[genericname85]

it's not hard. you just can't come off as strong, cause they'll think there's a hidden camera somewhere cause european chicks aren't doing that ever.

[genericname85]

just treat the men as you would good friends. that will probably translate into what they expect a woman who's interested to behave like.

[Asker]

I’m very hyper sensitive so I don’t know what not coming across as strong is especially when I’m emotionally invested 🤣

[genericname85]

well as i just said. just treat them as you would good friends.

[Asker]

Ok I’ll try that approach

[zagor]

Swiss and German people tend to be more reserved, from my experience.

[Asker]

I agree, they are definitely more reserved and easier to handle - engaging wise. But in a developing relationship it’s very hard to navigate without feeling they are distant from me (if that makes sense)

[DryGermanGuy]

They demand that you can cook the perfect Swiss chocolate? 🤔😁

[Asker]

Best I can do is a quality hot chocolate ☕️ 😅

[DryGermanGuy]

That might not be enough! 😑

[Asker]

I can cook, I’m Jamaican but I don’t know how to make chocolate lol

[DryGermanGuy]

If Jamaicans can learn how to bobsled, they can learn how to make Swiss chocolate! Ya mon!

[Asker]

Lool ok I’ll try 🤣😂

[molonski2]

Its not hard , but it depends where you are from?

[Asker]

The UK

[molonski2]

You should be used to them , Germans speaking generally are arrogant fcks , but Swiss are generally okey ,

[Lynx122]

Lol what's the problem? :)

[Agape93]

Culture differences

[Asker]

Definitely, I have to do regular checks in because they are SO different.

[Agape93]

Even for them that's not normal. behavior