What’s the biggest red flag that would make you walk away from the opposite sex?

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[Finchie40]

A female that is selfish that only cares about herself , she has no dignity nor respect for anyone but herself , she thinks she is always right and never wrong , Her way or no way basically , that’s a girl I will walk away from without even second guessing , especially if she acts like a child , when she doesn’t get her way. I prefer respectful girls’ ’ that have good morals and good values when it comes to relationships, that are responsible and mature for her age , that gives the same way she wants to receive , that knows how to be loyal and faithful in a relationship, that’s a girl I would invest my time into.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Honestly?

When she tells me all her exes - and I mean ALL - and friends are/were bad people, manipulative, abusive assh*les.

Why? For two reasons - either she has really poor judgment with people, or more likely, she's the one with issues and most likely I will end up in the pool of abusive exes. I bailed on a girl like that because she would build this narrative about everyone being a bastard to her and her being the victim of everything and everyone.

"If you run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day, you're the asshole.".

[Simslover92]

Being emotionally unavailable.

[Neallyaa]

Misogyny and sexism

[Pale_rider]

In other words ! masculine men you can't control. Lol

[Neallyaa]

@Pale_rider some of the misogyny men I met were very feminine

[Pale_rider]

Well real *woman haters* are usually weaklings. But let's be real, what most people mean by "misogyny" today is something they can't even define themselves, and associate it with authentic men.

[Neallyaa]

@Pale_rider misogyny is prejudice towards women

[Pale_rider]

And define prejudice towards women...

[Neallyaa]

@Pale_rider degrading and objectifying women. Hurting women for no reason and sexual double standards.

[Pale_rider]

So what is it about traditionally masculine men that degrade and objectify women? I'm curious what you mean by sexual double standards too.

[Neallyaa]

@Pale_rider Some masculine men may degrade and objectify women due to societal norms male dominance and control. These norms are often reinforced by media portrayals that focus on women's appearances rather than their abilities, leading to a perception of women as objects. Peer pressure can also play a role, as some men may feel compelled to conform to group behaviors that disrespect women. This behavior is closely tied to sexual double standards, where men and women are judged differently for the same sexual behaviors. For instance, men might be praised for having multiple partners, while women are criticized for similar actions. These double standards perpetuate negative stereotypes and discrimination against women, highlighting the need for societal change towards greater equality and respect.

[Neallyaa]

@Pale_rider sexual double standards a man can have an body count over 10 but if a woman does it she’ll be slutshamed

[Neallyaa]

@Pale_rider some beliefs a woman is only valueable if she’s a virgin

[Summeroflove]

Definitely entitlement…. Someone who feels entitled and acts as if everyone owes them something despite them refusing to do anything for someone else. RUN…

Being too good to be true. If someone seems to just be saying or doing whatever to make you happy. They probably aren’t being genuine.

Someone who sleeps around a lot. Someone who lies and is overly defensive.

[ohsheeT]

For me is if she talks about other people putting them down creating drama thinking that she is the only one in the world that right there just makes me walk away very quick

[Avicenna]

Mental illness and not being single

[Zack-Bann]

The lack of critical thinking skills


If I feel Im dating someone who’s constantly parroting the talking points of others on social issues and politics and any other topic that requires forming an opinion.


I find being smart and grounded to be very sexy and a basic necessity in people I wanna bring into my life


So without any hard feelings I would be turned off by someone incapable of that

[CuriousMoonFox]

If she is overly religious, overly feminist, overly older than me, overly masculine, overly demanding, overly impatient, overly hot tempered, overly fast paced, overly, overly, overly...

Forget everything I just said. The red flag is the "overly". The excess.

[MisterWack]

Big red flags that would make me walk away from anyone let alone the opposite sex: Narrow mindedness, lacking common sense / critical thinking, constant loud interruptions, and being a bigot.

[DryGermanGuy]

"She has a penis!!!"

- John Cage, Ally McBeal

[CuriousMoonFox]

🤣 I am dying!

[lil_will_12]

Even better 😈 /j

[ProbablyClueless]

Bitterness, anger... anything that gives me the vibe she's a lady with a chip on her shoulder.

[ClassicDropout]

Bitterness for sure. I'm not really down to be accused of or punished for something her ex did.

[HighValue]

If she is a Democrat, I would know we are completely incompatible.

[michalpl00]

Disrespectful, Not being loyal, shitty human being, A mean person. These are things that would make me instantly walk away, not even have them on the side.

[Fireguy17]

smoking, drug and alcohol abuse, narcissistic, self-absorbed, on her phone all the time,

[EzOwlz]

Exposing or showing too much skin in public, tells me your a massive attention seeker.

[andreasderjuengere]

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[Emmytexrex]

She has a stone cold fece no smiling no engagement is like I am talking to a brick wall or a sculpture

[zagor]

So she has to have warm shit? I think you are in luck on that one.

[Anonymous]

The biggest red flag for me is being a feminist, which is a hard show stopper for me. Modern feminism is toxic and anti-male, and anyone who supports it is a shitty person.

[DrPepper12]

If "she" had transition surgery. That's a HARD no for me!!

[Anonymous]

If I don't think she's being genuine. A lot of women will pretend to be whatever a guy wants them to be rather than just being themselves. And I've had my fill of women that just run game.

[ManOnFire]

Being bisexual.

[Pohjolan]

Her being being a active shooter committing mass murder.

[Christian_Cartier]

Being uninterested, uncaring, or general lack of concern for my well being.

[Djaay]

Any female that's utterly resistant to her biological role as a female.

[Kingofkings1992]

Immaturity. Being disrespected towards others without good reason

[Anonymous]

Her saying she is a democrat.


Kick that ass hard out the door

[slatyb]

Lying, disrespecting others.

[Nikki1989]

Misogyny

[Pupweb]

Narcissistic and manipulative

[Friendlybro79]

Racist and hateful rhetoric.

[Graptemys79]

If she is a serial killer.

[Raaj4you]

Rude, abusive, agressive behaviour.

[Crazzyyworld]

No romance and asking sex constantly

[Crazzyyworld]

All men are playboy

[michalpl00]

That is not true. But I do see it. A lot of my friends are like that they are telling me to sleep around and act like a fuck boy but that is not what I desire at all. I want an emotional connection and great sex. Hook ups not for me.

[Shihab_91]

Immaturity , not being mum material

[Slim57]

Self centered like so many people these days.

[Anonymous]

Weenie falls out of their pants.

[KrakenAttackin]

Hoe.

[Jmmmfi4]

MY DUDE

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Atheist.

[Anonymous]

No car