Do I have a chance with a woman who's 12 years older than me?

[Anonymous]

I'm 25 and she's 37, I really like her.

[Summeroflove]

Anything is possible but I just don’t know. You’ll have to ask her on a date and express interest. If you keep waiting around you’ll never know because chances are if she’s into you she’ll move on and if she’s not. At least you’ll have closure to not waste your time anymore.

As scary as it sounds. You need to talk to her. Unless you know she’s married or in a relationship. If she’s your family. Or something else weird like that. Talk to her.

[Zack-Bann]

Good chances actually.


Seem it done


Done it myself


Its very common these days
But still I wouldn’t recommend it without warning you that the age gap has it’s effect


And you being the younger end of the relationship will have to sacrifice a part of your youth to meet her in the middle as she revives some of hers

[sage2021]

We can't help who we fall in love with. I'm not sure what she has on her mind about you but if you don't go for it then you will never know what could have happened.
There are no guarantees when it comes to relationships. It's a gamble.
Just don't get involved with a weaponized feminist!

[rienna888]

lol yes depending on her priorities. If she likes younger guys, then yes. If she likes handsome guys and you’re handsome and young then it’s a bonus for her. If she wants stability or money, can you provide her with that?

[Asker]

Yeah.

[HawkPerception]

Age is a non-factor. If you both like each other enough, you can make it work. What makes things complicated is when one or both sides thinks too much about being socially accepted.

[molonski2]

Its not a good idea , what you are looking for is a mother figure , and she wants a toy.

[Asker]

How do you know that?

[molonski2]

Because all guys , who don't want to face up to their responsibilities think a woman older will look after them like a mother , you certainly have mother issues , in 12 years this woman will be menopausal , you need a much younger girl.

[Asker]

12 years is a while.

[Plugs]

So u are going to leave her after 12 years anyways? U wanna use her? And waste her time?

[molonski2]

It is mate , but by then she is cactus and you are in your prime and move on.. tad selfish mate , because thats what would happen , and of course now she will like the attention.

[Asker]

@Plugs You're putting words in my mouth.

[Asker]

@molonski2 You don't know me very well...

[Plugs]

Why don’t u marry her then?

[molonski2]

@Plugs
Agreed... If you are that sure , just marry her , you say you are committed.. @Asker :)

[Plugs]

@molonski2 exactly. Clearly he is fooling around

[Asker]

Okay.

[BlackRose97]

You have more of a chance than usual. why do you think her age lowers your chances?

[Asker]

I heard a lot of women go for older men or men the same age.

[BlackRose97]

Ah I see what you're saying. I still thing, in general, younger women are pickier than older women. At least when it comes to looks. Which I guess is mostly a sexual thing. So it depends what you're looking for. She'll be more likely to sleep with you than marry you, would be my guess.

[Asker]

I do wanna get married, not interested in having kids though.

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah if you genuinely really like her ask her out.

[exitseven]

I dont see why not. The Great Wayne Gretzky said that he missed 100% of the shots he never took.

[itsannalee]

My twin sister dating 10 years guy younger than her, they look happy.

[Jay-_-]

So I do have a chance 🥺

[Ariesman81]

Yeah... but don't take her seriously. Have your fun and move on.

[Asker]

That's not good enough.

[Ariesman81]

You're asking for trouble if you pursue more

[Asker]

Why is that?

[Ariesman81]

It's not a dynamic that works well. An older woman is gonna see you as a sweet little puppy. Not a man that is deserving of respect.

[Fireguy17]

anything is possible.
Go slow and if she is interested in you that way you will know.

[TrustOfWorthington]

Better 12 years older than 12 years old.


If neither of you is prejudiced about age differences, why sould it fail?

[SuchSightsToShowYou]

I mean... only one way to find out.

Ask her out.

Good luck.

[Emmytexrex]

Your choice bro can't hold you on this if you like her go for it

[KrakenAttackin]

Why? She is an empty egg carton. Find a young girl.

[Slim57]

If she likes younger guys sure, I was 28 and dated a 42 yo shortly

[Keyboardkat]

Four years isn't really much of a difference.

[LukeAurelin]

Does she like in that way?

[Asker]

Yeah.

[LukeAurelin]

Them go ahead

[Radiate143]

Go for it. But don't be an ass

[Anonymous]

Poor woman. 🙄

[Asker]

Why do you say that?

[MannMitAntworten]

Yes, if she is open to it.

[Anonymous]

hopefully not because that is pretty weird.

[Anonymous]

As long as you're not 9 years old.

[Iron_Man]

Most guys like younger women why older

[Anonymous]

Why do you really like her?

[Keyboardkat]

There can be any number of reasons that she rings his chimes!

[slatyb]

Yes. Ask her out.

[FunkyMonkee]

I don't see why not.

[scott04sa22]

If she likes you

[12karen]

yes you do

[Anonymous]

Yes.

[shades777]

Old women are creeps