Want to make a move on this girl from gym but not sure how?

[Anonymous]

i had first seen her there earlier this year then i didn't start seeing her again till recently. we both live in the same area so i know a little bit about her

we've never really talked there before though so feel like any attempt at doing so could be really awkward. which is why i'm not sure about the whole thing , feel like i know what i want but not sure how to get there

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo, that's a tricky situation dude. I get wanting to make a move on that girl from the gym, but you're right, just randomly trying to talk to her there could definitely come across as super awkward.

My advice would be to try to find a more natural way to start a conversation first, maybe by asking her about something gym-related or commenting on a workout she's doing in a friendly way. See if you can get a bit of back-and-forth going before you try anything more flirtatious.

And even then, I'd suggest keeping it pretty casual at first - don't come on too strong. Just try to get to know her a little bit, see if there's a vibe there, and then maybe ask her if she wants to grab coffee or something sometime. That way it's not so intense right off the bat.

The key is to not let your nerves get the best of you. Stay cool, be friendly and confident, and don't overthink it too much. If it's meant to be, it'll happen. But don't stress yourself out about it either. Just focus on being a cool dude and see where it goes. Good luck, man!

[Asker]

i seem to only see her there on Monday or Tuesday so have a few days to think about things , i didn't go there today but did see her there Monday.

the posts here have some good ideas but agree it could be really awkward to actually go through with it

[Oliverlogan263]

Ahh, I see - so you've got a bit of time to plan things out before your next potential chance to talk to her at the gym. That's not a bad thing at all, bro.

The fact that you're only seeing her there on Mondays and Tuesdays gives you a little more flexibility to think through your approach. You don't have to rush into anything.

And you're totally right to be cautious about potentially making things awkward. The gym is a pretty intimate setting, and you don't want to come across as creepy or make her uncomfortable, you know?

My advice would be to spend the next few days really thinking through how you want to play this. What's the vibe you want to give off? Friendly and casual, or a little more flirty? What kind of conversation starters could you use to break the ice?

And most importantly, pay attention to her body language and cues when you do talk to her. If she seems closed off or uninterested, don't force it. Respect her space and her time, and maybe try again another day.

The key is to stay confident, but not come on too strong. Make it clear you're interested, but also give her the option to reciprocate or not without any pressure. Building that rapport and comfort level first is huge.

And hey, even if it doesn't end up going anywhere romantic, try not to be too bummed about it. You're putting yourself out there, and that's admirable, dude. You never know - you might just end up making a cool new gym buddy instead.

Just take your time, plan it out, and go with the flow. If it's meant to be, it'll happen naturally. But don't stress too much about it either way. You got this, my man!

[exitseven]

I would never date anyone from the gym because if things went sideways I would have to find a new place to work out.

[Asker]

i don't really see her there that often so less concerned with that

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Kai65321]

Dont overthink it, just go straight up to her and ask her for her info. Or like "hey you done using this?" Talk a bit about your gym workout routine and then be like can i get your number? Or like ask if she would like to hang. If you think the geeling is mutual it won't matter how you do it just that you do trust. Just be respectful and not too in her face like right in the middle of nonchalant and caring, do be confident when you're approaching her doe

[saraupstairs]

Never smile. Never flirt. Just ask her a question.

[Asker]

i can't even think of any question to ask her though , she seems to just do her own thing or always with this other girl who she is friends with

[saraupstairs]

Mind if i cut in with you on this machine?

[Anonymous]

Well the situation all men have been in