Not sure why this girl from gym likes me and not sure what to do either?

[Anonymous]

she sort of appeared earlier this year , at my gym , never seen her anywhere else but we must live in the same area as my city fairly small and pretty much everyone at gym is from this area.

but i don't know her name but she is often near me and always notices me, we haven't talked yet , she did know this one girl that goes there that i also know but i haven't asked her about her , sometimes she goes by herself and other times is with a girlfriend

Updates

4 mo

also note open minded as to a possible outcome with her , like if she just wanted to be friends that be ok but if she wanted to sleep together that be ok , feel rather open to various possibilities at this point with her

[madhatters4]

I think you need to chat her up and get to know her. that's the first step

i mean clues she might like you? finds reasons to talk to you, finds reasons to be near you, finds reasons to look at and smile at you... but these are only potential clues and not sure fire signs she likes you.

the best bet is to start getting to know her

[Asker]

i'd like to talk to her soon , too bad she wouldn't just say something to me , she's fairly good looking so not sure why she'd be worried i'd not be interested in her or at least being friends with her at gym

[madhatters4]

she may be thinking the same thing. or maybe the thought hasn't occurred to her. but the thought has occurred to you so you should act on it

[ArrowheadSW]

Sometimes it is hard to break the ice. I've been in that situation before at the gym. On two occasions, I ran into the lady in question outside of the gym, say at a store or whatever. Then I struck up a conversation there. Saying something like, "Hey I see you at the gym..." and saw where the conversation went from there. One lady ended up being married but we had stuff in common and hung out a lot. Supposedly with her husband's knowledge and consent. LOL

[Asker]

i don't think it be that hard to talk to her at the gym , as she seems to be there all the time and does some stuff where she is more approachable like doing hand weights , and considering we always notice each other it wouldn't really be a surprise

less sure what i would talk to her about and even less sure where it would lead to afterwords as i have no idea what she does outside of the gym

[MontBlanc]

She might like you, or she might just be aware of you because you’re both regulars at the same gym.

It’s hard to tell without actual interaction.

If you’re curious, just start a simple conversation and see how she responds.

Sometimes things are simpler than we overthink them.