How does a guy have the nerve to message other women while posting his girlfriend and tagging her name, is he not worried someone will tell her?

[strawberrybaby3]

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What I don’t get is how he could post her or reply under her pics of them that he loves her then tries sending me 🍆 pics , like is he not scared I’m going to tell her? Obviously he cares for her and loves her if he’s posting them out doing things so I don’t get it…

[justabuddy]

My guess is it's all a game to him and he's trying to get away with as much as he can.

[strawberrybaby3]

Someone said it’s almost like he wants to get caught but I mean why would you even want to get caught and lose your girlfriend?

[HungTexan]

Any guy that does this is a jerk. Drop him now!

[glennos89]

He is a cheater he doesn't care about her feelings

[glennos89]

Dickpics are for losers but I can understand why he tries to contact you...
You look better then amazing and I doubt his own girlfriend is cuter then you lol 😋

[strawberrybaby3]

He’s clearly with her for a reason though

[glennos89]

Yeah ofcourse there is a reason why he stays with her. But let's be honest, if he really loved her and really cares for her... he wouldn't be doing stuff like that behind her back right?

I know I would never do that anyways period. But especially not to the woman I love

[strawberrybaby3]

You’re right. This guy and me had a past but we only made out , nothing more. I cut him off when I got into a relationship , and he still tried contacting me, then I talked to him when I wasn’t in one anymore and when he got with somebody he never told me. My age here is not my real age , I’m 25 he’s 36 so obviously he’s gonna want to be with someone his age but I don’t appreciate being kept on the side and I’m definitely not fooling around with someone who has a girlfriend. Now it’s almost like he wants to get caught because who in their right mind would tag their girlfriend knowing what they’re doing.. possibly because he’s only doing it with me and thinks I won’t say anything , who knows

[glennos89]

You are wrong about the whole age gap thing. Men are attracted to younger woman then themselves so he most likely prefers someone your age then someone his age!

In general woman date older guys and men date younger woman.

I understand you don't wanne be kept on the side you should be first choice and not second!

You also should be concerned that he might be going to do the same thing he is doing with his current girlfriend once you become older. He might be swapping you out for a younger woman at some point.

I think you deserve a better men them him to be honest. He doesn't care about the feelings he is causing towards his girlfriend and his behaviour is very toxic for both you and his girlfriend.

I can guarantee you that guys like him will brake your heart someday because guys like him are very selfish so be warned upfront.

If you do decide to invest in him anyways... Make sure you got your fences and set clear boundary's to protect yourself from being broken 💔

[strawberrybaby3]

Sorry I may have left some info out. He’s told me from the beginning that he prefers older women and his girlfriend is 30…probably because it’s more acceptable to bring home a 30 year old woman when you’re 36 instead of a 25 year old girl, at the time I was 22 when we started speaking. Whatever the case may be , I sometimes think he can’t let go because he didn’t get to sleep with me yet , so he keeps popping up to get his chance. However when I was single and so was he , sometimes he spoke to me like he wanted more or would be open to seeing where it goes and I was the one who was against it. Recently he had asked to just come over and hang out and I said no. Everyone I’ve spoken to thinks he likes me but just knows it won’t work out.. honestly I don’t even care it just blows my mind that he thinks he can get away with this

[glennos89]

Thanks for explaining it to me, I appreciate it😊

I like the fact that you kept your ground every time he tried🫶🏼
You definitely don't want to become his side chick or second best

You probably don't even realise it...
But you just told me unintentionally a lot of good things about your own personality lol 🤗

I really can't blame the guy for keep trying to be with you. He would be dumb not to. But his approach is totally unacceptable

[strawberrybaby3]

Aw thank you!! And yep, I agree.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I've never heard of an open cheater before

[strawberrybaby3]

Well, clearly they exist

[ChicoFromThe305]

It seems like it according to what you are saying

[RageBabe]

Right.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yep it's pretty wild

[Passerby2]

you're the same type o guy to cry when your girlfriend cheats on you

[ChicoFromThe305]

My girlfriend wouldn't cheat on me cause unlike some people I know how to pick em

[jahaims]

He doesn't care about her obviously

[jahaims]

You don't understand what love is if you think he can be in love and act like that.

[Danny_dan92]

They want every pussy in the world

[Emmytexrex]

Hmmm he is in an open relationship

[TallAnon]

Low IQ, I would assume 🤣

[Anonymous]

it's not cheating til her panties come off