Can a guy just be really unlucky when it comes to attracting & dating women?

[Anonymous]

[OlofssonBengtsson]

Most men are ugly and have a poor time socializing and an even harder learning where to start. I don't blame women for not wanting most men because a lot of them do stupid shit that ruins their lives and they are completely unaware of what it is that is causing all their problems.

[Hellraiser1984]

Women aren't all good looking either.

[OlofssonBengtsson]

You're missing my point. Both men and women have struggles, but it has nothing to do with equivalency. True there are a lot of ugly women, but less of them fall into a black void of social ineptitude. They are still able to find love because they are the "gatekeepers of love and sex" I don't like using that term, but its true. There are women that have the same social problems like men do, but there are very few of them.

Men have to get past those barriers if the man keeps failing over and over most of time he is going to give up on it and never find anyone which is more common with men. Its in human nature when something keeps failing you never learn how to make it work and just give up on the idea or you become unaware of what works because you tried so many times and failed.

"A lot of men are ugly they and they can't find a woman, but a lot of women are also ugly so they most have the exact same problem and are unable to find someone in the exact same way as a man does" That's not how it works this is not a black and white situations it's a very grey area.

[paledreams]

Lucky may actually be "not being like 90 odd percent of men, fattened, depressed and a future cheater on his girlfriend" lol and that's before marriage or offspring enter the picture 🖼️ lol - and STIs and stds

Man, I am lucky in hindsight I've dodged it all better than a GM Dodge dodges traffic lol 🚦⛔

[Nikki1989]

Absolutely, but it usually comes down to personality, social skills, and timing.

[Hellraiser1984]

Yes. I am. I've been told I'm good looking and have a great sense of humor. But I've only been on two dates my whole life. I gave up. Screw them move on. If you want sex, save up for a while and go to the bunny ranch.

[Abbycado]

I’m sure it happens. 🤷‍♀️

[OlofssonBengtsson]

Agreed

[In_Trance]

Luck has nothing to do with it