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Jesus… this was supposed to be a fun question.
Yes, we all know that the “it’s not you, it’s me” or “I’m not ready for a relationship” is a white lie 99% of the time. Yes, no matter what the reason is, it is still a rejection.
I am asking you based off of your own person experiences, what was the real reason.
For example, I just told this to a guy who DM’d me on IG because he gives off the eternal bachelor vibe.
Yes, we all know that the “it’s not you, it’s me” or “I’m not ready for a relationship” is a white lie 99% of the time. Yes, no matter what the reason is, it is still a rejection.
I am asking you based off of your own person experiences, what was the real reason.
For example, I just told this to a guy who DM’d me on IG because he gives off the eternal bachelor vibe.
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“I’m not ready for a relationship”, the only way that reason wouldn’t work for someone is if they aren’t ready to breakup and think that person is making excuses. Sure it could be an excuse and there’s an underlying reason but why does it matter? At the end of the day that person just doesn’t want to be in the relationship anymore and that’s the most important part. Deciding that they were dishonest and then going off on some effort to disprove them does nothing for the moving on process.
That was sure my real reason lol I just didn’t want a relationship at the time.
That’s funny because, society makes it seem like women are always waiting for Mr. Right lol
That is very true, there are many stigmas that get attached to women and usually along the lines of being a homemaker lol. But I’ve never been one to prioritize a relationship. I had definitely given guys chances, but ultimately I just didn’t “feel like it” I guess😂 this was all within like 5 years though, I was straight up single for 2 years before I met who I’m engaged to now. I just couldn’t be bothered, but maybe it was the men because I didn’t feel that way with my fiancé at all.
Newsflash — when people say that, it is all YOU.
Yes, obviously. Which is why I’m asking the real reason behind the excuse.
Case in point (from own personal experiences)
Guy #1: He was too short for my preferences
Guy #2: I already saw multiple red flag (he hit on me while he was already in a relationship and once it ended, he asked me out on a date)
Guy #3: I wasn’t physically attracted to him
Guy #4: Gave off eternal bachelor vibes
It's hardly ever any ONE reason.