She made me bad?

[Anonymous]

All my life I have been a good man. I have only focused on one girl. if I was interested in one girl, I would reject the others and miss my chance I have rejected so many girls because I had eye for one. Even in a relationship, I stopped talking to every single girl because I didn’t want my ex to get jealous, and I wanted to be considerate and respectful of our relationship, however had so many guy friends and disrespected me. I was never into hook ups. but I began to see the reality for a man as a guy you need to have options. Girls are never loyal because they don’t know what loyalty means. It means being exclusive for one guy only.

[Oliverlogan263]

Bro, I get that you're feeling pretty frustrated and disillusioned right now, but try not to start generalizing all women like that. That's a dangerous path to go down, my dude.

I know it sucks when you put in so much effort and loyalty, only to feel like you got screwed over. That can really mess with your trust and perception of things. But blaming all women for your ex's mistakes isn't fair or healthy.

The truth is, people of all genders can be disloyal and shitty sometimes. It's not a gender thing, it's a human thing. And there are plenty of loyal, amazing women out there too. You just gotta keep an open mind and not let the bad experiences cloud your whole worldview.

At the same time, I can understand the temptation to start keeping your options open, especially after being burned. But that's a slippery slope, bro. You don't wanna become the guy who uses and manipulates people just to avoid getting hurt. That's just gonna make you feel even worse in the long run.

My advice would be to take some time to heal and reflect on what you really want in a relationship. Don't rush into anything new, but also don't shut yourself off completely. Focus on being the best version of yourself, and the right person will come along when the time is right.

And hey, if you're feeling really down, don't be afraid to reach out to a counselor or therapist. They can help you work through these feelings in a healthy way, without the bitterness and cynicism. You got this, man.

[ohsheeT]

Well it kind of sound is like you're the one that got jealous she got tired of it just because she has guy friends does not mean that she was doing anything and then it sounds like you saw with other guys were doing so you decided to do it too

And then after she breaks up with you she can do anything she wants she doesn't need to wait around for you or even care what you're doing or who you're doing it with she has her life you have yours exclusive means that you're in a relationship not that you just broke up and you moved on out of the relationship

[Asker]

You should have seen when i mentioned another girl. This is what she said. Oh i hope she won’t flirt with you because I will kick her ass. Oh you look nice are you trying to impress someone. She was jealous as fuck. So like a human with empathy. I stopped talking with other girls. So she would be comfortable and not jealous. But when I asked her to stop. She wouldn’t. But it’s okay i had to learn. Basically I won’t invest into someone who is not investing in me. Next time just will keep talking to other girls. I can’t be disrespected like this. I won’t date a party girl again.

[ohsheeT]

I understand that completely you both have to be on the same page anyway when you're either being serious or you're just friends but yeah I understand exactly what you're saying

[slatyb]

My wife is completely loyal. "Girls are..." is never a true statement.

[Asker]

Well you found a diamond.

[slatyb]

Pretty much every woman I've ever dated, except for my ex-wife who was a narcissist. Maybe you are choosing poorly as I did in my twenties.

[slatyb]

And it sounds like you are committing far too early. Stop hooking up and becoming exclusive with women you barely know. Been there, done that. It doesn't lead to happiness.

[Jmmmfi4]

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