Years ago I dated someone. I was in my mid 20's, 25 or 26 I think and she was 25. We were together for a total of 3 years. In the beginning of the relationship we had sex, it wasn't frequent, Say once a week at most, I wasn't exactly happy with that, but I will take what I can get..
Well about 10 months into our relationship, she started rejecting me over and over.. Our frequency of sex dropped from once a week to once a month if I'm lucky. Something you have to understand here, I definitely can take no for an answer, so when she says no, my advances stop, I don't do guilt tripping or anything else. I just accept it and move on. Eventually I got sick of the rejections and stopped all together. Like literally I stopped approaching her for sex completely. After about two years of that she blew up on me one day, screaming "why don't you have sex with me any more, are you cheating?" of course I was not. My one and only response was "what do you expect when you tell me no over and over, I chose to give up on sex." she tried very hard to blame me which I was not having, and eventually I just kicked her to the curb.. Soon after I left her I met my current wife.. Granted the ex tried very hard to damage that..
Why did she try to make me the bad guy in this situation?
I think it's because sex gives women this idiotic notion that she has power, and I stripped that power from her.
Well about 10 months into our relationship, she started rejecting me over and over.. Our frequency of sex dropped from once a week to once a month if I'm lucky. Something you have to understand here, I definitely can take no for an answer, so when she says no, my advances stop, I don't do guilt tripping or anything else. I just accept it and move on. Eventually I got sick of the rejections and stopped all together. Like literally I stopped approaching her for sex completely. After about two years of that she blew up on me one day, screaming "why don't you have sex with me any more, are you cheating?" of course I was not. My one and only response was "what do you expect when you tell me no over and over, I chose to give up on sex." she tried very hard to blame me which I was not having, and eventually I just kicked her to the curb.. Soon after I left her I met my current wife.. Granted the ex tried very hard to damage that..
Why did she try to make me the bad guy in this situation?
I think it's because sex gives women this idiotic notion that she has power, and I stripped that power from her.
