Girls, why do bad guys always win when it comes to getting friends with benefits?

[Anonymous]

I have never had a friends with benefits situation, but have a lot of women as friends who complain non stop about some dude who treated them wrong even though they "weren't together," or were "just chilling." I've recently gone into a kind of social hibernation because after 37 years of being on this planet I'm tired of hearing it. The worst part is I'm a geek and have never had a great track record of keeping women. Now that my marriage has blown up, I want sex, but can't get it. Meanwhile it seems like everyone can just whip out their phones and have D*ck On Demand. I want to be that guy that someone calls at 1:30 for a quick romp. Why don't the geeks get that kind of treatment? Why does EVERY single woman I talk to on Tinder, Bumble, OBC, Adult Space, AFF, etc just want a relationship, but I have to hear my neighbor's guests crying for more every night? Am I the a**hole here or do I make sense? Is that why I always get cheated on with the same type of dude

[SueShe]

Is that correct that you skim those 5+ dating sites in search for someone to copulate with?

There are a number of reasons why you are not getting a girl to fornicate.

1. You have made yourself a reputation by being on those sex sites. Everyone knows that they are actually nothing more than sites for people to have sex and not to build a long lasting relationship.

2. Your age is a big issue on those porn sites because at age 37, you belong to the old iron and I am not quite sure that you will find anyone that does fit what you are looking for. At least, I presume that they are rather in a minority compared to those teenagers.

I think that you place much too much importance on sex and the fact that you are seeking someone solely to get into their pants is also something that would make me be worried if I was a member of those deviant sites.

Sex is the downfall of human relations but you are seeking exactly that...

[LazerBean]

Perverts always lose. The guys who you get cheated on with also get cheated on, because that's what happens when you're a pervert who associates with perverted women. You cannot be a skanky without paying the consequences that come with it. Which is all likely why your marriage didn't work out.

[Bethany22]

Sorry can't help. Sisterhood. You should want another relationship, not calling a woman to come over at 1 am

[NotTacocaT6969]

Sex is easy.


Relationships are hard.


Only losers take the easy way.

[elizamichale1]

Coz they always hav more spark more energy n they r always so good at conversations n all