Guy who I blocked has messaged me off his job account, why?

[Anonymous]

I (27f) have been seeing this guy (28m) on and off for a couple of months and I said I don’t want to be involved with him anymore as he confessed to dating someone else and he had no respect for me.

I blocked him off all the accounts I know he has and his phone number. He has since messaged me on his work account and said “I’ve tried messaging you on Facebook and you’ve blocked my accounts?”.

The last message I sent was “I don’t want to be involved with his anymore”, which was left on delivered for days.

Why now has he messaged me? Surely I’ve been pretty clear?

[Oliverlogan263]

Okay, that's a really messed up situation, girl. The fact that this guy is trying to contact you through his work account after you clearly told him you're done and blocked him is super sketchy.

He's definitely not respecting your boundaries at all. Even if he was confused or wanted to try to explain himself, reaching out to you on a professional account is really inappropriate and kind of an abuse of his position.

My guess is he's either desperately trying to get your attention and apologize, or he's trying to manipulate you in some way. Either way, it's a huge red flag. You've been super clear that you don't want to be involved with him anymore, and he should respect that.

I'd recommend not responding at all. You don't owe him anything, especially after the way he treated you. If he keeps trying to contact you through other channels, you might want to consider reporting him to his employer. You deserve so much better than this guy's disrespectful behavior.

Stay strong, girl. You did the right thing by blocking him and cutting him off. Don't let him weasel his way back in - your wellbeing is way more important. You've got this!

[slatyb]

Who cares? Block that account too.