If a guy gets you pregnant without commitment (marriage) is that foreshadowing for bad things to come in the future?

[Anonymous]

[D_Bone_Steak]

It's what you make out of it. It's not like you don't have him paying out the ass to raise that kid and buy you a free ride in life... or if he was a stranger and you don't even know his last name, Daddy government will pay you.

But here's the thing to tie it all together. If you're dumb enough to have unprotected sex or sex with a guy that can't even pull out... you're probably not smart enough to take advantage of all the free shit either. Dumb people never get ahead. There a plenty of women that purposely seek out the single mother situation just to coast through life and have a kid too. So enjoy raising fuckboy's kid and make a good life... or make that kid's life miserable as well as yourself because you're just like my Mom.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Superb victory.

[WindAtMyBack]

Yes, it's a bad sign.

But it's also a bad sign for you to get pregnant when you aren't in a committed relationship. It takes two to tango.

Ring first and then sex. Or sex first and hope for the best.

No, I'm not someone who thinks people should wait for marriage before having sex. But I DO think that both people need to be responsible for any consequences.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, the red flags should be smashing you in the face at that point.

[Peopedotoomuch]

Yeah. That itself is a horrible thing. The child is a bastard. :(

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily. Some men just don’t want to get married. Am I suggesting a person do that? No. But it isn’t always a bad thing. I’d just make sure you discuss all that before bedding down together.

[molonski2]

No , it just means you had sex and you have fallen pregnant , it has nothing to do with anything else.

[Anonymous]

Typically yes. It shows she is not very smart. That doesn't automatically means the man isn't going to honor his responsibilities. But she FOOLISHLY left herself open to that possibility.

[Garud]

that is a bad thing to do

[Asker]

What is a bad thing to do?

[Garud]

Playing with a potential life, the child who will be born will surely face emotional challenges because of the 30 minutes of joy of selfish people

[Danny_dan92]

Not always