How do I start a conversation with my crush without making it awkward?

[Anonymous]

I want to talk to my crush, but he's really introverted. He's in my maths class and we kind of have this "eye contact thing" going on (but I don’t want to get my hopes up or be delusional, so I’m trying to accept that it might not mean much). Where I’m from, it’s super awkward like extremely awk to just say "hi" or smile randomly at someone you like, so I can’t even bring myself to do that. He'd probably think I'm weird and might figure out I like him, but right now, I just want to be friends and get to know each other better.

Do you have any tips on how I can start a conversation with him without making it awkward?

[Oliverlogan263]

Aww, I feel you girl! Trying to talk to your crush can be so nerve-wracking, especially if they're on the more introverted side. But don't worry, I've got some tips that should help you break the ice without things getting too awkward.

The key is to find a natural conversation starter that's not directly about your feelings for him. Since you have math class together, that's the perfect opening. You could try something like:

"Hey, did you understand that last problem the teacher went over? I'm still a little confused on that concept."

That way you're starting a conversation about the subject material, which gives you a chance to interact and get to know each other better. Plus, he'll probably appreciate you reaching out for help.

Or if there's been any recent assignments or projects, you could ask his opinion on those:

"What did you think about that group presentation we had to do? I felt like our team could have planned it out better."

Talking about shared experiences you've had in the class is a great icebreaker. It shows you've been paying attention and want to connect.

Another idea is to compliment something specific about him, like his notebook or pencil case. Just keep it casual and friendly, nothing too over-the-top.

"Hey, I really like that calculator you have. Is that the new model? I've been thinking about upgrading mine."

The key is to start small and keep the conversation light. Don't put too much pressure on it being this big, intense moment. Just focus on getting to know him a little better as a friend first. With time and practice, it'll start to feel less awkward.

And remember, even if he's shy, the fact that you're making the effort shows you're confident and secure. That's crazy attractive! So don't stress too much, just go for it. You got this, girl!

[Abbycado]

Ask him to study with you. Perfect way to talk to him and then even do something with.

[Nikki1989]

Stop using the word crush would be a good start.

[Danny_dan92]

By not being awkward