How to start conversation with crush at college?

[Anonymous]

We have a few classes together, I’m pretty shy but I noticed him starting to go the same way I usually go alone. It’s just us two and I really want to talk-there feels like a lot of tension and I wonder if it’s just me.

[rosesanddaisies]

Don't do say something complicated, make it simple. Maybe ask him to help you or if he falls or something, ask him if he's okay. You don't wanna say something like, "Hi, I like you let's be friends" because that turned me into a total joke. Little words can go a LOOONG way, trust me, I have lots of guy friends now because I jumped into conversation by saying little things. Good luck<3

[Asker]

If he doesn’t fall or anything do I just say hi and limit it to that? Or hi and something else? Thank you soo much I really do appreciate the advice, I want to try it

[rosesanddaisies]

Yeah you could say hi or ask if the seat next to him is taken or not. Also your welcome!

[cookiecrusher]

Trip him of course, then ask
"you falling for me?"
With a smirky smile 😅

[cookiecrusher]

Go for it or miss your shot forever. Will not always be a next time.

Start with "Hi" "i'm Jane" and reach out your fist for covid pump.

His turn to babble something nervously/excitedly.

You "may i walk with you for a while, we're going the same way"

Etc etc with a friendly smile. At the point of leaving, tell him it was nice and ask for his number or give him yours.

As a woman you don't have to worry much about it, you will be making his month. He will be happy even if he can't take you on a further date etc.

[Cubus]

The easiest would be to talk about studying. You may ask him if he could help you understand something. Talking about hobbys is also good (like movies, sports etc).

[kenz000]

The first action is gonna be the scariest. You just gotta do it haha. When you leave next time, set in your mind that you will say something to him. Let him open the door for you or you for him to start it out

[joeldalton]

Has to be one of the easiest things to do. Ask him about the class? Is the professor hard? Was the last test easy?
"hey, how did you do on that test? I'm by the way"

[Luopio27]

Maybe the easier first step is to smile, say hi, and move on before stopping him to ask casual questions about collidge, to break the silence.

[Subarugirl]

Say hi, how's it going, ask about assignments, then ask if they would like to grab coffee sometime.