Are they really any positive attributes that an autistic guy dating a girl could provide that a neurotypical guy couldn’t?

[Anonymous]

Like sometimes I really sit down and think about this because even though they are both guys there has to be some disparity because of how the brain operates

[jennifer_bloom]

I like to feel like I’m contributing to someone’s life and making them happier. My boyfriend is rich with a good reputation and he is attractive and kind but I feel like I’m just an extra and he doesn’t actually need me.

[Anonymous]

Honestly I'd date you just being honest you sound like a really good guy. I've seen your posts so I think the girl is just rotten and you really shouldn't beat yourself up about it

[Asker]

There’s so many factors of why this continues to live in my head first it was my first girlfriend at 29 when I didn’t think it would happen before because my social skills aren’t good. It was a perfect situation with her I got paired up with her at work cause I was new and we started having deep conversations. She promised me she wouldn’t hurt me. I put my heart and soul into this relationship I did spontaneous dates. I seen she liked the mask singer and seen it was coming to town and immediately got tickets for her to go. I got her thoughtful gifts her favorite color is pink for Valentine’s Day in 21 I got her a pink rose covered bear. That Christmas she loves board games and just dance so I got both. Her birthday I got her coach purse that was pink and covered with flowers that Christmas she is a big fan of Ariana grande and loves her perfumes so I special ordered a brand new perfume for her. In terms of sexual activity I mainly wanted to please her because seeing her happy was fulfilling to me she didn’t have to reciprocate.

[Opinion Owner]

I just think she didn't appreciate you. And no you don't have to become a dick to any girl for her to stay. Honestly she just was a bad pick...

[Asker]

I never really felt like I was cared about if I had anything going on it didn’t matter she never asked how was work or classes for me but she had the expectation that I listen to her issues. She would frequently throw temper tantrums

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like a brat. Was sex good? Were you domanate. Sorry for weird question but she sounds like the type of girl you have to be superior to

[Asker]

There was no regular sex she would only be ok with oral whether on me or her. What do you mean superior to

[Asker]

Also my social skills are not good at all she even mockingly said she would easily get another partner before me. She supposedly dated me because of my personality so she wasn’t the best looking girl. She was overweight she had yellow teeth, she picks her nose, farts when she eats or other people eat. Skips showers

[Asker]

She also would say she doesn’t want her children having autism

[Opinion Owner]

She doesn't sound nice... im sorry

[Asker]

I guess that’s another major thing that bothers me about this whole thing is how I was taken advantage of on a major scale and how I couldn’t even see it due to my disability. She co-signed a car with me and took it from day 1 she made a remark sometimes it’s just easier living with someone for finances

[Opinion Owner]

It is but sometimes it's not worth it. Feel better

[Asker]

But how can I pull anything from this that just means I’m not low value

[Asker]

I really haven’t been able to date that was my first girlfriend at 29

[Opinion Owner]

Some are late bloomers. There's no rule book to this shit. Just don't have a chip on your shoulder and you'll be fine