Hooking up on tinder?

[red324]

Do girls expect to hookup on the first date on tinder? This was the app I had the best luck with, but I like to go on a few dates before having sex to get comfortable with the person. I also got ghosted after the first date and rarely got a second one. Never hooked up either and got banned when I agreed to go over to a girls house, when I finally decided to maybe give a hookup a try. They banned me before I could get her phone number and address. It was really odd too, like she tricked me and then reported me because as soon as I asked for her address, I got kicked off.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Everyone is different. And using the app for different reasons.
I would never assume.

Personally I would never hook-up, and only go towards dating that maybe would eventually end up in a relationship.

Go after what you want and are comfortable with, and be open about your intentions.

[Founding_Daddy]

@Little_Bumblebee the hookup side is probably really risky >.>

[Little_Bumblebee]

Meaning?

[red324]

I never got the impression any of the girls wanted a hookup. It was a first date, didn't see anything wrong with waiting until the next date if they wanted that. I mean a couple girls were probably down for it, but I didn't think it mattered either way.

[bobalife]

No, not necessarily. Tinder has such a bad rep and stereotypes. But it’s honestly just depends on the girl who may or may not be looking for a hook up. I know a married couple that met from there and a few relationships. Sorry you had a bad experience but it may just be those girls.

[katiesmuff]

If they are even on tinder they are not the brightest bulb to begin with.

[mandyfire98]

Agreed

[red324]

I think the dating app days are dead. I definitly find it strange that tinder is the only one left that people flock to, but they kicked me off a couple years back. I've probably gone on 200 tinder dates, mostly were all low quality people that just wasted my time. No telling what any of these girls wanted out of me either, since they never put in an ounce of effort let alone be straight up with their intentions from the beginning

[Lowiu]

Depends on their profile and how the chat goes

[Anonymous]

I'd imagine most do.