No hookups on tinder? ?

[red324]

I don't understand if tinder is a hookup site why do all the girls ask very early on what you're looking for? If you say to hookup they'll just delete me.

[confusedperson2002]

I think a lot of people on tinder are looking for hookups. I found a hookup buddy on tinder because I didn't know what I was looking for and I was open and we're actually friends now. But at the same time it's hard to meet people in person now so a lot of people go on there to look for a possible relationship. Just be honest and weed out the people who aren't on the same page as you. Maybe word it differently though, say you're just looking for something casual, no strings attached, I don't know. The guy I was with just said he was looking to hang out/cuddle and to me I just assumed that meant hooking up.

[red324]

The girls have their expectations set to high. Like I'll go on one date and I'm not the person they imagined through all the texting we did and they ghost me. It's like really? Whether you want a relationship or fuck buddies you have to give it more than one meeting.

[t-8900]

probably because you're not hook up material and more and more of them are realizing the toxicity of such affairs.

[OlderAndWiser]

Perhaps they are not ready to be honest with themselves.

[princeofromance]

Tinder is not a hook up site. It is a dating site.

[red324]

Since when?

[princeofromance]

That is it's intended purpose. People choose to use it as a hook up site.

[red324]

There we go.