My boyfriend is a sadist I guess? is this a probem? please read and give an advice? we r 18?

[Anonymous]

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We met when we were 15. He became my boyfriend when we were 17. He is a very loving person, but sometimes his second personality emerges. He says this himself: "I love you very much, but sometimes I want to make you suffer. You will obey me." He says a lot of things that will dominate me, such as. He says I am his slave, his whore. He slaps my face, my breasts, my hips, my head, anywhere you can think of. And he loves squeezing my neck. Even in class, when we talk together, he sometimes wants to

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Even in class, when we talk together, he sometimes wants to squeeze my neck. He said it was impulsive. He usually treats me like this when he gets too horny. "I will treat you very badly. I will punish you. I will make you wiser. I want to hurt you. I want to possess you by force." things like. He even once said, "I want to torture you." he even said.

[Anonymous]

Depends some women love this darker side and bdsm and rough love!

Some of me would like it but also if be worried that I could never get what to needed from sex. It would only be for him.

For sex side do you like it or do you even like these huge red flags?

[Asker]

i like both. sex side and the other things.

[Opinion Owner]

Then can you be ok with him hurting you for his pleasure? Dominated chokes and pinned just for his impulse?
Dated a sadist once it was hot but in time wore on me that he could not fully love me. Just the reactions he caused.
Kinda exciting thinking about still

[Anonymous]

If you dislike it, yes, considering his apparent passion for it, it likely will be a problem. But. If you either like it or don't mind it, no I don't see it as a potential problem. It's just a kink he has.