Boyfriend sleeping on couch for a month?

[AmySP]

a month ago I discovered my boyfriend went to a strip club. He lied about it, but I know it’s true. He didn’t deny it either. I asked if he just watched the show or got a lap dance. He did not respond. Since then, he has been sleeping on the couch and it’s been a month. We’ve had issues in the past where he slept on the couch, but it was 2 weeks tops. Now it’s been a month and I don’t know where we stand anymore. I feel like we are drifting apart more and more. I want to talk to him, but I think he’s mad that I found out. I think what hurts the most is he did it 3 days after my birthday, after giving me a beautiful birthday… I can’t get past my man being around other naked women. Especially when he said he doesn’t even like places like that. Oh, and he said he didn’t spend any money there either, lol. Because I mentioned how he doesn’t take me out, but he could spend money on strippers. I don't know what to do anymore.

[MissTrix]

Well you know what to do... End it for your self. You really know that this behavior will get worse and never end.

Especially just after your birthday saying you won't ever be enough for him in bed he needs to drool over other women.

This is why I stopped dating guys so immature and unthinking.

[MrPiercedD]

If it hurts you, and you guys had similar issues before, then why are you still together?

Maybe he went to strip club because he is not getting enough sex from you? Have you thought about that? Some guys (like me) need to nut at least 2-3x a day or more. If you won't be giving him what he needs then he will be looking for it outside of the relationship.

[slatyb]

"He doesn't take me out" -- so why are you still together? What are you getting from this relationship? Is he supporting you financially?

[Anonymous]

I guess you have to learn about men the hard way.

[Abbycado]

Why is he still your boyfriend then?

[In_Trance]

So what's your question?

[Anonymous]

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