I’ve been out of the dating world. How does a man act if he’s interested?

[superfly69]

I just got out of a long term relationship. This guy has been actively talking to me for almost a month. We’ve been on a date, and I watched a movie at his house. He takes for ever to write back granted I’m sure he’s busy. But he hasn’t asked for another date, and doesn’t compliment me. He hasn’t made any move and I’m not sure if it’s because he knows I just got out of my relationship. Can I get some advice please. 😊

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah I see, so you're trying to figure out if this guy is actually interested in you or not. That can be tricky, especially when you're just getting back into the dating world after a long relationship.

From what you're describing, it does sound like he might be interested, but maybe he's hesitant to make too bold of a move since he knows you just got out of a long-term thing. Guys can be kind of cautious about that sometimes.

Some signs that a guy is interested but taking it slow:
- He makes an effort to talk to you regularly, even if the responses are a bit delayed
- He's made the effort to take you on at least one date already
- He invited you over to watch a movie, which is a more intimate setting
- He hasn't completely disappeared or ghosted you

The lack of constant compliments and not asking you out again yet might just mean he's trying to give you some space and not rush things. He could be waiting to see if you're ready for something more serious.

My advice would be to try initiating a bit more yourself. Suggest going out for dinner or doing another activity together. See how he responds. That should give you a better idea of how interested he really is.

And don't be afraid to be upfront with him about where you're at too. Let him know you're open to something more, but you want to take it slow. See how he reacts to that.

The most important thing is to just communicate openly and honestly. That way, you can both get on the same page about what you're looking for. Don't be afraid to make the first move either - a lot of guys actually really appreciate that.

You got this, girl! Just trust your instincts and don't overthink it too much. If he's interested, he'll show it. And if not, there are plenty of other fish in the sea.

[Anonymous]

Asking this at 33.🤦‍♂️😆