Boyfriend found out I've dated a few black in my past& is upset, how do I get him to see it was just a fun novelty & his size is fine?

[Anonymous]

& I had no real intrest in a relationship or marraige with them and it is all in the past.

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It was purely sexual. It's no different than when I use a large dildo

[ohsheeT]

So is he really pissed off because of the size thing that is so ridiculous that is so funny tell him to grow some confidence and learn how to use it and he wouldn't feel the way that he does my goodness does he please you of course are you with him well of course what's he complaining about I think it's funny

[ohsheeT]

I agree or just having another large cock in you doesn't matter what color it is as long as it completes you that's all that counts

[texascollegegirl]

A lot of guys get jelous of the big dick Blacks. The smartest ones understand and channel their feelings so it becomes sexual for them. They don't understand just because we enjoy big Black dick doesn't mean we don't want the great relationship with the smaller dick white boyfriend or husband. I mean, we're with them> There needs to be room to understand we are evolved to want the biggest dicks on the side, and that it's less important for a relationship. If he's academically oriented, maybe show him stuff on dual mating that explains why we want the big dick Blacks on the side and our men for relationships. If he can handle that, show him stuff about sperm competition so he can learn why the idea of his girl fucking big dick Blacks makes him insecure but also turns him on. Do you really want to give up all the biggest dicks for one that is just fine, when he should be a better so you can have him for the most part and the biggest dick Blacks when you need it?

[LunarEclipse433]

Do you feel that you always need to keep a big black dick on the side? Would you tell him about your side dick?

[texascollegegirl]

@LunarEclipse433 Oh I have way more than one and I'm always looking for new big dick Blacks, as big as I could find. I would tell him all about it if he could handle it but his fetish and fragility don't allow for it. He deeply loves the insecurity and the cheating but the actual admission or seeing it shattered him when I first did it, even though he was the reason I even considered it. Now I'm hooked. I'd love to be open with him but it's also really kinky to lie and cheat.

[Vegasrunner]

@texascollegegirl The part that they realize is after we bang you, you don't have any additional value to us, so the fact that you want a relationship w/ them makes them feel less secure. If a guy is married to one of my ex tramps then it's him that looks foolish not me.

[texascollegegirl]

@Vegasrunner It's a little hard to understand what you mean exactly, but it's true that big dick Blacks might be impressed by me but the main thing is my looks and that I'm a white slut. I'm not looking for a relationship with them beyond fucking, and they aren't either. They want the racial and sexual value of hot white girls who give our bodies and don't want more than the amazing sex. But one thing - if we are hot then they want us again and again. I always keep seeing the biggest dick Blacks, so over time my pool for hookup sex is bigger and bigger and bigger. Plus I keep them hooked by getting them with my friends and not asking for it myself too often. I understand they need new girls just like I need new big dick Blacks. That has long term value but not "relationship" value if we are fuck buddies but also loop our hottest girlfriends and biggest dick friends in.

Yes, the smaller dick white guys get really insecure about it, but it also turns them on to be so devalued and humiliated but still have us devoted to them in every other way.

[Vegasrunner]

@texascollegegirl No worries, don't be embarrassed that you don't understand. We're not impressed w/ you at all, you're simply another notch in our belts. I've banged numerous white sluts, and their benifit is they help me practice and live out more sexual fantasies. As far as relationships that's not something any man wants w/ a slut much less men like me w/ as u said a "big black dick" I do like that when they're done w/ you u introduce them to your friends as that's a great way to add value after we've run through you.

[texascollegegirl]

@Vegasrunner Oh for sure all the big dick Blacks I am with are blown away by my looks and my twerking. It's better than all the Black girls because I want to win. And I like to leave them knowing I'm the best they ever had and if they are really big and great in bed, they can get it again whenever we find the time. But not too often because I'm turned on by getting other girls to try and be as slutty as me. I want to compete against the best white and Asian girls for the one a big dick Black keeps at the top of his mind as the best sex ever. Even though I'm white trash, or maybe because of it, I'm like crack to a big dick Black and they can't ever get enough. We just need to take a break to keep it fresh and make sure it's only about the sex and the racial thing and not about wanting a long term relationship beyond sex. I only introduce them to the prettiest, sexist girls and the real sluts so I know I'm the best. Plus I want them to owe me that big Black dick for giving them my friends.

[Vegasrunner]

@texascollegegirl That shouldn't be a problem if most guys get sex, they're ok not having relationships. It's the guys that can't get any that always are trying to get in relationships

[texascollegegirl]

@Vegasrunner Yes, all the biggest dick Blacks like the hookups better. They know I'm good if they have a Black girlfriend or wife and I'm not a threat to that at all. If she is one of those Black girls that tolerates him running around because his dick is so good, or she understands he has his needs for white girls, or maybe she has a related kink, all the better. But if he just needs it secret from her, I'm good with that too. All the small dick guys think they can get me out of this lifestyle or relace my boyfriend. No way. He is a treasure and totally hot in everything but his dick, plus we share the compatible fetishes, so it's perfect. The only risk to me is the very rare huge dick Black who wants a relationship - but I let him know I can't be faithful to him because I can't say no to big dick Blacks, and they settle for what they can get. I'm not good relationship material except for cuckolds.

[Vegasrunner]

@texascollegegirl I don't think you need to worry about that. We always have slump buster girls like you available so no reason to get into a relationship.

[Anonymous]

My husband (white) dated almost exclusively black people before me (also white). I dont see why your boyfriend is upset about this unless you lied to him about it. I also don't see the novelty in dating black people..

[AviatorTom]

Next time you two are intimate, make love to his cock with as many body parts as you can, letting him know that you absolutely adore it. He'll forget about your past.

[hahahmm]

Honesty is the best policy. Tell him how you would never leave him for a black guy unless that black guy is a successful businessman or rich sports jock.

Or always wag your pinky when he starts trying to get romantic.

Just some ideas.

[HighValue]

It isn't about size. Many people will not want a relationship with a woman that has ever been with a Black person, even if it was only a kiss.

[MrPiercedD]

It's not about his size.

It's about that you went so low that you decided to date black guys.

[texascollegegirl]

It's size insecurity. She said he's fine which means he is way smaller than the big dick Blacks she fucked. All the biggest dicks are Black and all the hottest girls should give our bodies to them for the pleasure and the racial and sexual healing.

[MrPiercedD]

@texascollegegirl it means that you haven't had big white dick and good sex. Just stereotypes took you over. Doesn't matter if a girl is hot or not, if she takes black dick means that she doesn't have any respect to herself. I know that is hard to understand for you, however I'd prefer to be with girl who had 200 sex partners than with a girl who had black dick in her.

[texascollegegirl]

LOLOL that's just white insecurity and jealousy and racism and dishonesty talking. All the biggest dicks are Black, and it's the hottest girls who have sex with the most big dick Blacks because we have to compete for them. Fucking big dick Blacks is respecting our sexuality and desires and not giving in to small dick whites like you. It's better if a boyfriend or husband just understands we are evolved to run around on him a little getting bigger dick.

The last thing is stupid. Girls don't have 200 sex partners unless we are all hot for the biggest dick Blacks and hot enough to get them on a spontaneous hookup. I know I can put on my short shorts and a nice top and heels and go over to the basketball courts and find a big dick Black way bigger than any white within a hundred miles, and way better at sex too. You do your pscyhological denial, sweetie. Keep on telling yourself those stupid lies.

[slatyb]

Your best option is to lose the racist boyfriend. This is a huge red flag.

[LunarEclipse433]

It seem to upset a lot of guys. I think it is because they feel they will never measure up. Your large didldo may be fine and an actual turn on while a BBC may not

[Anonymous]

The size thing isn't the issue. It's the fun novelty part that's messed up. WTF

[Anonymous]

Since a lot of the replies mentioned size. What would a woman do if her boyfriend were to say that he wanted a woman that he could touch the sides. Since you were stretched out!

[Anonymous]

So troll post get to stay up yet when I asked a question about interracial dating @girlsaskguys said it was a offensive? Guess they cherry pick instead of following policy

[Wise4myage]

You can’t. If he can’t accept your past then it’s time to move on from him.

[Wise4myage]

He's acting like you cheated on him, lol.

[beefcakebradybatson]

You and he should hit it off great as you're both racists !!!

[Anonymous]

so you admit that he is smaller than all of them?

[Asker]

Well he's white so yeah

[texascollegegirl]

Exactly. People keep pretending like the size difference isn't real. The once you go Black idea is kinda true in how it affects what we want sexually, but it's also untrue because getting big Black dick doesn't mean we can't keep a white boyfriend. We should be able to have fun with them without it being a threat to our relationship. I'm sure his size is fine for a boyfriend. It's unreasonable to expect that after we had that pleasure that we're just going to give it up completely. People need to understand the Black dicks tend to be bigger and all the biggest ones are Black. What else are we supposed to do? It's not like you can't get big dick Blacks on the side if you need them, just as a casual thing no strings attached. Maybe just lie to this guy if you like him every other way. If you move on, maybe there is a lesson to be learned - next time find out how he feels and just lie and get it on the side when you need.

[Opinion Owner]

if he knows this, it will crush his manhood.

[texascollegegirl]

Well he "knows" it and it turns him on. It nearly killed him the few times he saw but he gets the blame for each time he was nearly destroyed, because he was the one that put me in that situation so I would fuck the big dick Black in front of him or in ways he knew for sure. It doesn't crush him at all to be sure I did it but then be able to conform to my demands when I lie and deny it to his face. I mean, I definitely did it, but I the way I lie he bends his mind to believe me and channels all that stress into being aroused. It's hard to describe how excited he gets. He can cum just from my talking about it in detail, what I might have done, then saying I didn't in a really vicious or innocent way. He will almost always nut without me touching him when I ride his face after I have had a big dick Black. It's crushing his reality but he loves it.

[Anonymous]

He has realized that you are nasty and have sucked BBCs & been fuckd by hem, therefore the chances of it happening again is high

[Anonymous]

Fun novelty! My god the lack of awareness.

[kyatra]

Sounds like you deserve each other

[LiamJHayden]

You should dump him for being a bigot.

[Crazzyyworld]

Tell him it was just monkey pets

[zombiewoof]

He is just an insecure person

[WowGIrl4ever]

Lmao...

[Anonymous]

You don't.

[Jmmmfi4]

You're gross