I got rejected a lot, what am I doing wrong?

[Chillguy53]

Im 20, and i’m still a virgin, i’m not insecure about being a virgin, i just want to have sex for the first time.
I am an average looking guy, i have great hygiene and i groom myself, i have a dad body and i’m 5’7. I do not even look like a virgin.
I have cold approached 42 different girls and i got rejected.

Is it likely the way i come across that gets me rejected. When i talk to girls i’m visibly nervous and insecure and socially awkward.

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I am socially awkward and i lack confidence when im approaching girls

[Anonymous]

Let me tell you my man. I've been rejected by every single woman I've asked out in my life. Yet woman still ask me out. Don't try to understand what attracts women. You'll just make your brain hurt.😆 Women follow no logical pattern. I credit my success with those that are interested because I found out a long time ago that it's just putting yourself in the best light to be noticed. You're never going to sell a woman that isn't buying. But a woman that truly wants to know you is going to make every effort to make that happen. I used to be socially awkward. To be honest I still am. But I own it! I know some women are going to be turned off by me. Hell, I know MOST will be turned off by me. That's fine. Those women can f*** off.😆 those women ain't every woman. And you don't need every woman. Just one. The right one.👍

[Chillguy53]

I will listen to your advice, as for the women asking me out, i have no social circle and no friends, so it’s a must for me to still keep approaching girls. I will change my approach though.

[Summeroflove]

Okay well you’re looking for the wrong thing. Just looking to have sex is going to chase a lot of women away who want to build something real with you.

Not all women are going to be into you the women rejecting you aren’t wasting your time. When the right person comes along she comes along.

[Nikki1989]

“I do not even look like a virgin.”

I didn't know virgins had a look. Who knew?

[Chillguy53]

Virgins are usually portrayed as nerdy and watch anime, and they look ugly looking.

[Summeroflove]

You really cannot tell by looking at everyone. People who put down people who are virgins because they have self control are miserable people. Major difference between people wanting to loose their V card who can’t and people who choose to use self control despite having every opportunity.

[Summeroflove]

Some are chill dude but it does depend.

[Anonymous]

Lose the weight

[Chillguy53]

i am not fat, just a dad bod, im not ripped