What are your relationship goals for 2025?

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LifeHitMeandRan · Accepted Answer

I do not have any. I've been single since 2014 and am content to wait longer, or even remain single for the rest of my life. I'm letting God decide. Also, I list some reasons below of things I, as a man, have to deal with. When you read them, then you will see why I have no time to mess with the minefield that has become dating as a man. Some of the reasons sound bitter, but they are not. They are just the reality of dating and getting married as a man and as a means to explain why I am not messing with it right now. Also, I understand not all women are like this, but it only takes ONE to ruin a man's life.

I finally JUST got a real home this November after being homeless for 6 years (living out of ditches/abandoned buildings, couch surfing or living in hotels). I am in the middle of deciding a new career to pursue. I need to come to grips with this reality and get things going before I can even begin to entertain thoughts of a relationship. In that entire time period, NOBODY was there for me. I had to achieve this on my own. And I'll be DAMNED if a woman gets let into my life and then gets to destroy it all just because she wants the relationship to end.

Another thing is, in my generation, there are VERY FEW females that are worth anything. The "women" of my generation are feminazis, let the whole town run through them, liberal, incapable of bringing peace into a relationship or the good ones are taken.

FINALLY, why risk a relationship as a man today? Yes, if things work out then that is AMAZING! However, if not, men face nasty repercussions in relationships, such as slander from their ex about their character, false accusations, double standards (one example being if she cheats it was for a reason but if he cheats then he is next to Satan when cheating is wrong point blank period), most marriages end in divorce and she takes half or more his assets.

Child support needs to be reformed in a way where mothers cannot use that money for anything not related to the child. As it stands now, a man just pays baby mama money and the courts TRUST the woman to do right with the money, even though you see time and again "mothers" using that money on hair, nails and a million other things not related to needs of the child. A child does not NEED their mother to get her nails done. Child support should NOT be free money for the mother.

Alimony needs to be eliminated altogether. The point of a divorce is to be free from any obligations to each other. To get married means you were a grown woman. Most divorces require a bunch of notice and proceedings so you have time to find work if you were not working during the marriage. I should not be responsible for an adult who I have no relation with.

RichA322 · Accepted Answer

Not planning for a serious Relationship anytime soon (if ever again)

Currently I Plan for Friends with Benefits or maybe Best friends with benefits. If it gets more serious: fine, if it doesn't: also fine with me. Don't care anymore. In today's times when everything is constantly changing and Likes, Followers, and Re-tweets are the only desirable thing for many people, I currently don't see a serious relationship on the horizon. And since today many people treat something as important as sex in the relationship as a TikTok game to get more likes on Social Media:

He/She wants more sex: He/she is disgusting !
He/She wants less sex: So I cheat !
He/She Wants the right amount of sex: he/she is boring !

To be honest I'm tired of this Bs. I'm not operating a Shelter for Failed Social Media stars in my home, to give them free food only to get mocked on Social Media for it !!!

My last successful relationships were several years ago. Everyone else after that were just such disasters, that would make the Joker in Batman seem like the reasonable one...

I AM tired of it. Casual dating or hookups are the only thing I'm currently interested in. If it fits also outside the bedroom: ok, if it doesn't: also ok, then let's keep it casual or part ways.

Meisdipa · Accepted Answer

Same as 2024, Not having relationship for the sake of relationship. If there's a prospect of getting into a relationship, I'm gonna take it slow and not rushing it.

Simslover92 · Accepted Answer

Just to let things happen. If love comes my way again then that's great, but if it doesn't then that's fine too.

Summeroflove · Answer

I think people need to stop rushing things and let things develop naturally. Not set a bunch of unrealistic standards for one another. That… Really makes it hard to let things grow on their own

Making future plans is fine, but a lot of people make it to where “well if this didn’t happen” and now they’re mad and upset.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

My goal is to continue building a life of love, trust, and respect with my wife.

Finchie40 · Answer

Find a girl that isn’t selfish

Zack-Bann · Answer

Earlier this year I hit the breaks on casual dating because it lost all meaning to me.

I don’t usually do new year resolutions because I don’t think that we become a different person overnight just because the calendar increases the year count.

But I would say that I am slowly starting to lean back into the game: but this time the idea is to find someone truly amazing that I can build something meaningful with

And to do that I first have raised my standards quite a bit to make sure I don’t gloss over a few red flags or turn-offs just because Im horny

I’ve been horny ever since I turned 11 and it’s high time it stops controlling my decision making.

Anonymous · Answer

I’m not having any expectations for women in 2025. I’m tired of y’all, I can’t take the roller coaster of emotions, I’m tired of the rejections, I’m tired of the games, I’m tired of super interested one day and completely uninterested the next. I need consistency in life and loyalty and a lot of girls and women in the west lack that. I’m only focusing on myself. I don’t care if I walked by a group of women with DD boobs wearing tight bikini’s and trying to talk to me…I’m walking away and not even glancing at them, that’s how much I don’t care anymore.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Wouldn't mind getting into a proper relationship, but that's about it... I'm not lonely by any stretch of the imagination. I want any woman I bring into my life to help maintain my sense of peace. I have to be careful (and extremely patient) about who that person is.

Anonymous · Answer

I take the Peter LaFleur approach to this. It's best to not have goals when you realize you have minimal control over them. Instead you just take a, "whatever happens, happens" approach.

Kelley1 · Answer

To get engaged and married. At age 20, my sexual market value has already peaked and is or will soon go downhill. Therefore, I don't have time to wait much longer.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

nothing is set in stone, so there are no goals, just being open to opportunities :D

lilBigPotato · Answer

No goals, then I won't be disappointed. Would be nice to find the right guy, but also not unhappy with my single life

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Goals? There aren't enough goals in a world already worshipping goals 24/7? No more madness please 🫤

Nikki1989 · Answer

Another wonderful year of marriage. It will be 12 years in August.

Bricealan · Answer

I would certainly like to have someone in my life next year that I love and care for, and someone who loves me and feels the same about me

asarjam · Answer

Getting older so as much sex as possible before the body can't perform anymore. :)

YourExLover69 · Answer

To settle down with a right lady and marry her. If I don't meet any right and compatible friendly lady I'm staying single for sure

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Maintain my worthwhile friendships and fry not to have another momentary lapse of reason that lands me in another fleeting ‘romance’.

PepperJackson · Answer

Wookin pa nub in all the wong places.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

To keep up the good work :)  To keep loving him, to keep being loved.

MoonFace2 · Answer

I don’t have a goal. If I don’t meet the right man for me? I’ll stay single.

exitseven · Answer

I hope to still be married and happy about it.

Vegasrunner · Answer

Add 12 Women to my body count Replace 2 women in my roster with two different ones. Have a perfect week

Anonymous · Answer

Make lots of love and get pregnant.  And keep making lots of love afterwards. haha

Crazzyyworld · Answer

for girls - getting a rich husband and divorce  for guys - fuck anyone that they see

khyaeliza · Answer

to communicate my needs more and to start having sex

Anonymous · Answer

I'm single and I'm not interested in the dating department

chrissykerdock · Answer

give more blowjobs

Screenwriter · Answer

Find me a relationship that's good for me!

NicholasRedone · Answer

To stay single me 😄👀🥳😋

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I'm gonna buy me a dog.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

To preserve things the way they are.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Relationship goals? Lol.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Love the one you're with

UrsulaY · Answer

Make them feel safe and loved

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Get a buxom blonde between 21 and 45 !!!

Aurav22 · Answer

I'm happy as a fuckboy

Anonymous · Answer

To finally have a relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

To say wholly away from all that

MysticDevice · Answer

To have one

Smf1989 · Answer

Find the right women

nanisjj · Answer

Livin💋

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