Do I have every reason to be upset at this guy friend/coworker?

[Emily12344]

So I guess you can say we are friends so called at work I mean we work together, but anyways I think I’ve been a little too nice to him which I realize he probably don’t deserve it tbh, he might be asking me if I have any snacks sometimes I shared an apple and other stuff with him occasionally, his asked me for candy and gum here and there and usually I always gave him in return, now overall he is nice to work with very friendly always greets me in the mornings chats etc but yea he likes to ask me for stuff like that consistently but not everyday type of thing, don’t know why but yea, anyways I haven’t noticed it before but I caught him few times just recently that his been doing little favors for this one chick we work with, not sure what the deal is with them but I witnessed myself one time she brought him a biscuit from the front on break ( I guess he didn’t want to walk there) than just days he brought her coffee twice I’ve witnessed as well, NOW it might sound like I’m jealous but has this boy ever done anything for me going out of his way? Like I've mentioned I’ve given him this and that when he asked etc and he be bringing that girl coffee? Now I think she might have asked him that one time but hellooo am I overthinking? Bc now I’m like maybe I should just end this so called friendship

[Staximus]

Just keep it friendly and professional. Don't get romantically involved with your co-workers, it's basically shitting in your own backyard

[Emily12344]

What makes you say I’m trying to get romantic with him, I’m trying to understand his behavior towards me

[AnonAndrew]

@emily12344 Yeah, but it's pretty obvious that you like him.

[Emily12344]

@AnonAndrew I wouldn’t say all that now

[Emily12344]

I’m trying to understand his behavior

[AnonAndrew]

@emily12344 What do you mean?

[Emily12344]

@AnonAndrew what you mean

[Emily12344]

I’m trying to understand why he always want everything from me

[AnonAndrew]

@emily12344 What do you mean "everything" ? You wrote that he asked you for "candy and gum here and there."

If I'm interpreting you correctly, you like this guy, and are wondering if his asking you for things is a sign that he likes you as well. Is that correct?

Probably not. If you were the only one he ever asked, then maybe. But since he's asking another girl as well now, I think not.

That doesn't mean that he doesn't like you. It just means that him asking you for things probably isn't a sign that he likes you.

[Emily12344]

@AnonAndrew not exactly, but this guy really need to mind his own business and stop trying to get close to any of the females at work

[AnonAndrew]

@emily12344 Why shouldn't he be friendly with any of the females at work?

[Emily12344]

@AnonAndrew bc he becomes too friendly

[AnonAndrew]

@emily12344 But when he was just friendly to you and not to any other girl, it seemed like you were ok with it?

[Emily12344]

@AnonAndrew no I wasn’t I always kept pushing him away

[AnonAndrew]

@emily12344 This is a bit different from what you wrote in your question. Quite frankly, I don't believe you. But of course I cannot know for sure either way.

[Emily12344]

@AnonAndrew let me rephrase what I wrote in smaller paragraph, this guy from day One always kept asking me for stuff like gum or if I can get him something from the snack etc yet I’ve noticed he would hardly ever do the same for me, so I stopped doing things for him even tho if he asked for a piece of gum I could have given him but recently he brought coffee for this girl, knowing I always go there too and knowing as a friend that he always asks me for stuff wouldn’t it cross his mind to maybe bringing me a cup of coffee one day too? After all this time when he asked I always been nice enough yet he hardly ever returned the favor back,

[Staximus]

Because you sound jealous. Nevermind that bozo and get back to work haha

[AnonAndrew]

@emily12344
Well, maybe if you would have asked him like he asked you, he would have returned the favor?

[Emily12344]

@AnonAndrew I doubt but there is a little maybe

[AnonAndrew]

@emily12344 Well, you can ask him and find out. :)