Why do I want a man but I also don’t want the responsibilities?

[Jdurhrbd]

I don’t want to have to change and answer to a typical guy and I don’t wanna have to buy gifts for men on holidays or birthdays lmfao

[Cormac995]

So, you want a sugar daddy who showers you in affection and money, but you don't want to bother reciprocating the affection? If this is a genuinely real question and you're not making a rage bait post, then the answer is, relationships are hard work, but everyone craves the comfort they provide. The short answer honestly and (I don't mean this as an insult this is a criticism.) Is that you're lonely but you're being selfish and lazy.

If those are things you don't want to "Change." about yourself, you're going to have problems and a lot of them. The kind of relationship you're describing in your post is called a parasitic "relationship".

[ohsheeT]

Or so it sounds like you have all ready been with that type of guy. . how did it work out.. I would say it didn't. . so reenvent yourself. And go out with a different type of guy.

[Nikki1989]

You might be enjoying the benefits of a relationship (companionship, affection) without wanting to commit to the responsibilities that often come with it. This is usually a male issue, though.

[Plugs]

U are a girl. He’s supposed to buy you gifts. Are u dating a man or a wuss

[Summeroflove]

Well that’s called one sidedness. When one person puts all the effort in getting little to none in return.

[Finchie40]

Just find yourself a FWB’s with some strings attached

[Jdurhrbd]

No I’m not that kind woman. I’m super traditional.

[Finchie40]

How can you be traditional without the responsibilities of a relationship then lol

[Jdurhrbd]

I wish men give women gifts. And I never have to give men gifts. But if he’s my husband I will always sacrifice my time heart and body to him. I’m super traditional.

[Finchie40]

So you want to receive gifts without giving gifts? That doesn’t sound fair lol Me personally doesn’t really care about receiving gifts to be honest but it’s nice to receive once in awhile , I guess if she kept me satisfied on the bedroom I wouldn’t complain to much lol

[Jdurhrbd]

So giving her body and heart etc and loyalty isn’t a gift? That’s what I’m saying people today don’t value anything that matters it’s all about monetary gifts that mean mothing

[Finchie40]

That’s a gift but it’s also a choice , when you love someone and care about someone you are choosing that person the same way you hope they choose you , Gifts are nice to receive but it doesn’t always have to be necessary, I only like gifts that someone put thought into , instead of just some random gift that I don’t really want or need. I am perfectly capable of buying my own things , So when I am in a relationship with a girl , I don’t really expect to receive gifts from her , if she is kind and loving and loyal to me and wants to be in my arms , that gift is priceless compared to some item at a store or wherever. But if she expects me to constantly buy her gifts to receive her love and affection then she isn’t the girl for me , I like girls’ that want to work as a team together , her and I verse the world pretty much

[Avicenna]

That’s OK- it’s your life to do as you please

[Jdurhrbd]

I wish men give women gifts. And I never have to give men gifts. But if he’s my husband I will always sacrifice my time heart and body to him. I’m super traditional.

[SixFootSexy]

Bit late to ask this question if you're nearly 50.

The cats and wine are perfect company; they are great listeners, don't care if you forget a birthday, and never ask for much.

[genericname85]

nobody wants responsibilities xD that's normal. the thing is that you don't get to cherry pick these things in life. so you gotta decide if the good is worth taking the bad or not. can't separate them. it is what it is.

[tzdc21]

Well somethings gotta give. You can't have your cake and eat it too lol.

[In_Trance]

not really sure what you're asking here

[jahaims]

You're immature