Is the ugly guy supposed to be my endgame?

[KittygosMeoWW]

I hooked up with the ugliest mf spur of the moment 3 years ago during a break with my ex lmao and till this day this man reaches out to me saying he still fantasizes about me. I literally cried because I missed my ex and this guy didn’t even finish. It was such a awkward experience and I’m surprised he still hopes will do it again. I removed him off social media the day after and he claims to search me every now and then and hypes me up so much.

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Also truck carwash guy was a bust lol he knows my ex and they played ball together in college… so I ghosted because I panicked.

[ohsheeT]

Kitty kitty kitty
You've been out here for a long time as I have been I've read all your answers a lot of your questions

You have morals values and ethics and you're naughty girl all in a good way I'm saying that's all I'm saying. LOL

But any guy that you hook up with is going to fall deeply in love with you because of who you are on the inside and what you look like on the outside

And the day that you allow yourself and acknowledge that there is not going to be that ex anymore in your life that's when guys will start flocking around you because you will start glowing and then that's when you have the hard part you're going to have to pick and choose but I know you're capable of doing so you just have to be patient but the first thing is is acknowledge it say it out loud my ex is gone I don't want my ex I want somebody that's better than my ex cuz we are our thoughts if they're positive even if they're negative they happen if we think it it happens so only positive thoughts and you will get what you're looking for I guarantee it because there's a guy out there who is saying the same thing about his ex. And still holds that little piece of her in his mind his heart or wherever and that is the little piece that is not allowing him to actually go forward just like you

[KittygosMeoWW]

🫶🫶🫶

[ohsheeT]

🥰🥰🥰

[Nik1hil]

Close your Eyes and see him..

Just an experiment for you..

Tell this Ugly guy.. I want a non-sexual date with you.. Like a Role-Play date , "If I was Blind, how would you Take care of me".

You wear a blindfold on the date!.. Let him guide you, hold your hand during walking. Let him pull the seat for you.

I PROMISE YOU , it will be the most interesting date you will have.. and you will learn to see him without your eyes..

Also if your Eyes are closed you will be able to see his other flaws, if his voice is bad or he does not knows how to talk.. if he has other Major Red Flags you can make it a final date.. otherwise if he is really good you will see that.

What you consider Ugly face is Just a Mirage and you will learn to look past it!.

[KittygosMeoWW]

And if we have kids I wear I blindfold for them too

[Nik1hil]

Don't open your legs or Give him Consent and Don't have sex on The date, I promise you won't have kids..

After one date If he is good apart from looks , then you can think of Changing his Hairstyle, or giving him face exercises to fix his face structure and muscles and other Ways to Fix his face and outfit.

Your kids won't be ugly, if you teach them to do face exercises and take proper care of skin..

Same things that you can teach this guy..

[KittygosMeoWW]

lol he’s ugly fr

[Nik1hil]

If you have made up your mind..

There is no point in this conversation..

I rest my case!..

[PeachyPie93]

The ugliest guys will always treat you good because you were the prettiest girl they got.. doesn't mean that is who you need to go for. You just need to pick good looking guys with better personalities lol.

[Nikki1989]

Don't settle for ugly guys... or blue anons. 🤣

[KittygosMeoWW]

Sorry I was shivering and thumbs downed but I meant thumbs up. Lol ok I won’t

[Summeroflove]

Your choice sleeping with weirdos. You chose this endgame for yourself by not choosing decent men and chasing decent men off by your actions.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Awww no

[Summeroflove]

But it is…

[KittygosMeoWW]

Ok….

[Summeroflove]

Well that’s the honest answer. Stop being weird and maybe there will be other men besides the weird ones who want you.

[KittygosMeoWW]

You’re right I’ll be just like you

[Summeroflove]

Well I’m sorry you get on here to ask questions and don’t want honest answers. If you want something sugar coated go eat a doughnut 🍩

[KittygosMeoWW]

Lmao

[Subtle_Luminescence]

'I hooked up with the ugliest mf spur of the moment 3 years ago during a break with my ex...'

I'm assuming he hasn't performed any surgery on himself after you hooked up with him. He still looks the same: ugly. I don't see why you'd hook up with someone who is ugly to you. Isn't sexual attraction necessary for you to have sex with them? You chose to have sex with him and he's stuck on you till date. Doesn't matter much now if you had sex with him already. Just block him.

[KittygosMeoWW]

I hooked up because he was nice and I wanted to get over my ex and I was in my early twenties

[Subtle_Luminescence]

He was nice but *ugly*, right? But since you said that you were in your early twenties and considering that your age is 29 now, that was at least 5 years ago. Fair enough. People change, tastes change.
But poor guy, still stuck on a hook up from years ago.

[AnonAndrew]

You can choose for yourself is he's your "endgame." There's no "supposed to" there.

But I would recommend against getting together with him. The way you write about him shows you don't respect him, and are not attracted to him. Better to find someone else you actually like!

[Truthatanycost]

I remember telling someone that truck guy would be a bust. You are searching to fill a void through another person and that never works. man shall not live by bread alone...

[KittygosMeoWW]

lol no he’s nice and good looking I’m just worried of him finding out my ex was abusive

[hahahmm]

Sounds like you don't have a lot of options. You will be one of those women getting an 85 year old dude in a nursing home to marry you because he has money

[KittygosMeoWW]

You’re right I’m gonna get a sugar papa

[ChicoFromThe305]

Sounds like ugly guy put more effort than the rest tho, just saying, he got effort points 💀

[KittygosMeoWW]

Fr like damn why can’t I like him

[ChicoFromThe305]

Maybe cause you didn't give him the chance romantically, you just used him because of the heartbreak, maybe if you do things right he might grow on you

[KittygosMeoWW]

lol no

[ChicoFromThe305]

Lol.

[Ironco]

Ahhh, to be young again.

It's just life, you are experimenting and growing. Just have fun, be careful, and find what you like.

Stay safe kiddo...

[KittygosMeoWW]

Ok grandpa

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Since I've looked at the complete background of your question found in the comments, I have a counter-question, how do you proceed to evaluate men, in general?

[TonyMetal___86]

You're not a good girl when you use other guys just for fun, you're being a player and i won't be surprised if you will be treated the same!

[KittygosMeoWW]

I’m not a good girl? 🥲

[TonyMetal___86]

Would you like for a guy to use you as a side chick?

[KittygosMeoWW]

I didn’t cheat we were broken up so he was never a side dick and it was less than 10 pumps.

[TonyMetal___86]

10 pumps? 🤔

[KittygosMeoWW]

Yes….

[TonyMetal___86]

What does 10 pumps means?

[KittygosMeoWW]

It was brief like he went in and out like 5-6 times because I started crying

[TonyMetal___86]

WoW! You're a naughty girl miss kitty, if you want my advice, i suggest that you have sex only with a man whom you will truly love or to wait until marriage cause you will feel special!

[HungTexan]

Don’t settle, and drop these losers. You’ll find the right guy without even looking if you open your eyes. Change your routines, meet new people, try new things. It will happen.

[HighValue]

People that do casual sex should know better than to expect anything other than a low quality undesirable person to want them for long term.

[Anonymous]

Maybe, promiscuous women aren't very valuable.

[KittygosMeoWW]

You’re right blue anon I should’ve waited for you

[Opinion Owner]

No thanks.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Oh no whatever will I do without your approval… I won’t eat I won’t sleep my love.. I’ll wait forever

[BareEssence]

You said he was nice to you, that doesn't sound like an ugly guy in my opinion.

[exitseven]

He might be ugly but maybe he has a nice personality.

[molonski2]

Just bring him over and fck him senseless , he is the absolute end game , you fcked up first time , give him a good solid crack at it.

[Tomisworthless]

Sorry it did not work out.. Small world shit.. No ugly guys aren't your only options we both know your being foolish

[LiamS95]

You may have to tell him in plain language that you're just not interested in him.

[Bklynbadboy12]

I don't know if he's supposed to be your end game but the fact that he's still trying to get more means you got that good good!!! 😜😜😜

[Apple1996]

Don't settle for a ugly one

[KittygosMeoWW]

🥲 god was watching beauty and the beast when writing my life

[Apple1996]

Omg 😂😂

[beefcakebradybatson]

Hopefully not.

[kaucky1]

All these 'guys' seem to be in cahoots

[NathanDavis]

lmao...

[Flower7]

Block him.