Why am ı like this?

[Anonymous]

To tell you the truth, I have never had a boyfriend but there have been people who liked me. But I don't want to be in love because I think they will leave me in the lurch.

[glennos89]

No risk no reward!

Love can be both the best feeling in the feeling and the worst feeling in the world depending on how the relationships goes.

If you never had a relationship because you rather stay in your comfortzone then you will never feel how truly amazing love can feel.

I highly recommend you to step out of your comfortzone because you are obviously carefully enough to not just pick any random dude. I feel you have nothing to fear tbh

[conanbdetective]

There's a bigger issue to solve about your own vulnerability. Either you haven't found someone worth giving everything for or you've been through so much that trusting someone now is worse than dying. Part of falling in love or being in a relationship is trusting your partner to be there for you, knowing at any time it could end.

[Daniela1982]

If you always think the worst will happen, there will never be a chance for the best. Maybe you need to change your strategy and expect the best.

[Anonymous]

You probably realized that most people are not worth investing in. And if you're a self sufficient person on tiop of that then you probably figure what's the point.

I'm kind of like that. I have everything I need in my life. How would a woman benefit my life? So why would I want to not be single?

Don't worry about it. If it works for you and isn't hurting anyone. Then there's nothing wrong with it.

[Anonymous]

Well I’d personally blame feminism for painting a bad picture of men but It could be some trauma we don’t know about, whatever the case your window shrinks every year. And time is not your friend

[jahaims]

You aren't emotionally healthy