I’m in interested in a guy from the same culture as me, should I just approach him on social media?

[Hanz02]

I’m interested in him, I followed him on ig after NYE party. I used to follow him on my older acc and had spoken to him a few times. I don't know if he’s too scared to approach me or he’s not even interested…. Men what do you think?

we’re both 22 and Arab Christians so that plays into the approach a lot bc our families go to the same church and people talk…

give me any advice or opinions you have thanks !

[Zack-Bann]

As an arab Christian myself I know a thing or two about this dance.


I even got a DM from a girl not long ago who wanted to date for the exact same reason.


I wasn’t interested.


Fact is: we’ve reached a point where we’re far too progressive to be tied by religious cultural norms.
We all want to experience a life of unapologetic freedom.


Not necessarily abandoning the church but not getting tied down by it.


Maybe your guy isn’t like that but if he is you’re much better off approaching him for different reasons than “oh we come from the same culture come be traditional with me”

[ohsheeT]

Hey you're never going to find out anything not unless you just go for it if you think it's the right thing to do then do it it's not going to be a big deal really

This is just a moment in time and this moment will pass so don't be embarrassed about it just do it if you really really want to

[Nikki1989]

And what do you think it is to be gained from that?

[Hanz02]

A relationship hopefully? Thoughts?

[incorrected]

Yeah, have courage and tell him you're interested. Most guys don't know you're interested and assume you're not, missing all kinds of "signs" you put out or just too afraid to believe their own eyes. Just do it, and don't even think about it.

[Subtle_Luminescence]

Sure. Find a way to text him by replying to his story or something. That should get things started.

[StevenMcGarrett]

Yes, make a move. The worst he can do is say no.

[In_Trance]

No you should stay off of his social media and approach him in person

[HoldingtheSword]

I believe in the flying spaghetti monster too