Is it necessarily a bad thing if a guy wants to see you on weekdays instead of weekends?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

Well I'm sure that he has his reasons if he's been married before and he has kids maybe he wants to see his kids on the weekend or maybe he works on the weekend and has days off in the weekdays

It is just kind of weird because most people have the weekends off but no. There's nothing wrong with that

[Asker]

I know his schedule he works doubles, but some days he works in the day not at night and then other times he works at night only. He told me if I wanted to go and see him one of the weekends and then all of a sudden change to a weekday

[ohsheeT]

Yeah if he has a schedule like that that's crazy I used to have a schedule like that and it drove me absolutely nuts I didn't know if I was coming or going

And I bet you it's confusing for you too because you don't want to go at the wrong time or you don't know when the right time is I'm sitting here laughing cuz I got confused on my answer now LOL

[WellBye]

He’s married.

[Asker]

Do you think so?

[Anonymous]

you sound like a job

[Asker]

🤣 ouch

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry i didn't mean to cause offense. my first thought was, the weekend is for time away from work. Monday to Thursday is naturally for networking or kissing the ring after work. The weekend is for friends, family and dates. Many work away during the week so i understand if he's staying in a hotel on business trips to your area but anything else is weird.

[Asker]

No, it’s OK. Lol I totally understand. I just thought it was funny a little bit. But I totally get what you mean he is long distance at least 100 miles away and we’ve been talking for literally six months now every day since the day we first met not a day went by where we didn’t call each other or talked on the phone. He said it’s up to me when I want to come, but at first he mentioned the week and then go home on Friday. It’s like wait what? God knows what he’s doing.

[Opinion Owner]

No idea, im not in a relationship.

[HoldingtheSword]

He will go to church on the weekend

[NicholasRedone]

I'm not sure 😊

[12karen]

Not necessarily