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What keeps you going as opposed to giving up?

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  • Circushowcowboy
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    I don’t even know anymore.

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    • Agape93
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      I feel you entirely.

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    • Circushowcowboy
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      It gets tough sometimes. I guess being able to goof off every once in a while is huge for me right now

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    • Agape93
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      Yeap. I'm just getting tired of it. All of it

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    • Circushowcowboy
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      I get that. Wish I could help soemhow

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    • Agape93
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      Same but I don't know how to help others with this. I don't have the emotional understanding to help with that but so much

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    • Circushowcowboy
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      I am in the same boat. I can’t even help myself let alone orhers

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    • Agape93
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      At least you're a good person. You have the capacity for love and compassion and empathy. You will be ok

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    • Circushowcowboy
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      Thank you. That really helps to hear. I’d echo the same for you

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    • Agape93
      Agape93
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      I wouldn't, I mask a lot. But I'm glad i help you feel better

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    • Circushowcowboy
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      It’s good masking in that case. You’re super bright and talented and you stand up for what you believe in and that’s something I really admire

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    • Agape93
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      I appreciate that. My masking is mostly hiding my darker nature and how I'm actually feeling. It's why I'm able to socialize and not be seen as a danger. A bit off, but not a danger. It definitely helps because nobody will know what's going on unless I say

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    • Agape93
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      You are way too sweet.

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    • Circushowcowboy
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      You found a way to work with it in modern society and I think that’s what matters

      Aww 🤗

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    • Agape93
      Agape93
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      *hug*

      Yeap exactly. Neurdivergents of any form don't fit in. We have to hide it to make others comfortable.

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    • GlowUpGirly5
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      @Agape93 lol 😆

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    • Agape93
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      @BCRanger10 see?

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  • Danny_dan92
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    My mom

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    • Agape93
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      She's good I take it?

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    • Danny_dan92
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      She’s an incredibly sweet person.

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    • Danny_dan92
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      Just an example she helped take care of my dad’s mother when she was a vegetable from having Alzheimers disease.

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    • Agape93
      Agape93
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      Good. Cherish her

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    • Danny_dan92
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      I do

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    • Agape93
      Agape93
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      Damn seriously? I wouldn't have. Good woman there.

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    • Agape93
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      Good man

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    • Danny_dan92
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      Yeah she did it out of love for my father

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    • Agape93
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      I can understand that

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  • ohsheeT
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    Wanting to know the truth about everything and understanding that we are much bigger powerful beans than we have all been taught to believe and no matter what we will win we will come out the other side if we can understand the reasoning for it all right here on this planet and it's something beautiful I mean if you understand what it feels like to become one with somebody and then put yourself feeling that every moment of the day becoming one with yourself other people in this planet the universe and incorporate that into your life because that's truly who we're meant to be is the best we can possibly be without any drama without any b******* without any anger without any of the negatives and if we can all become that way we all be 10 times more happier and the whole world would just I mean circle around us it would have our backs it does have our backs already when we allow it to but when we throw anger or negativity are you stupid thoughts out there it holds us back and there's just something beautiful about learning all this and becoming this

    And I mean the main thing is is there's . Is. Dual purpose. In our lives and once we understand what that means it will change your life

    Dual Purpose is two sides to.. and everything on this planet has two sides look at us two hands two arms two eyes two nostrils everything.
    We have a brain in a a heart that fight all the time because they're two different emotions but if you cross your arms they become one because left hand side controls them right hand side of our body and left hand side of our brain controls right hand side of our body for that just say that anyway vice versa.

    But it's like love and hate we understood the deepest part of Love is hate because we wouldn't understand the deepest part of the love without that hate

    It's like failure and success you cannot have success without failure there identical in their own ways that you need the other one to bring you down to pick you up so you can succeed

    Wrong and right the same thing

    Positive and negative the same thing

    Good and bad the same thing
    God and devil the same thing.

    I mean everything in this world that we think is bad it is bad but it's good too because you have to go through the bad to get to the good and if we're all in this planet right now we struggle each and every day that means we're bad we're going to bad times when we understand it doesn't have to be that way we can go the other side the good side and when you can just glow and be in that zone that's what makes me keep going on I mean I love that feeling I love these experience of it I'd love that exploration of it

    I don't care what it is in this world I need to experience it whether I have a hundred times in the past I have to do it again because there's new levels each and every day when you've learned something it's going to make you learn something else in another way another place and it just keeps going on and on and on

    I mean you you were here and gagged before I got here you were probably one of the first people that I followed and your knowledge and the questions and I mean we're so powerful and positive and then all of a sudden something happened and you hated the world and you just I don't know you were like down on yourself and I think this is what this question . Comes from those moments and times and days from your past and you have to understand who you truly are I mean you are wise you are smart you are intelligent and you are meant to be right here right now because everything you've gone through I hope you understand it it's just learning experience then that person that I'm talking about right now because I know it's right there in front of you but it's only up to you to reach out pick it up grab it do whatever you want with it I mean this is one of the best questions I've heard from you in a long time I'm glad you asked it because there's a message behind the whole thing especially for people that have been here 13 14 years and have always looked up at you and wondered about how you are and all this other stuff I don't want to even go there but anyway yeah I mean this question for coming from you is a positive powerful thing I think this is a moment to where I see growth I see change in I see when I say everything is just a moment in time this moment will pass a new one will start this proves it. right here right now..


    Your going. To say shut the f****** LOL what the f*** are you even talking about. ... Well you know exactly what I'm talking about but anyway even if I don't you do so anyway that's my answer and I'm sticking to it

    It's the no matter what we go through it's just a moment time we're going to make it out if we want to or we're going to sit there and wallow in our own b******* until we stand up and start all over again that takes too much time I'd rather acknowledge it except whatever I've gone through and keep going forward no matter what because it can only get better when you find yourself and you take that knowledge and that wisdom with you and just keep growing you're proven fact of that anyway that's it for me that's my answer LOL

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  • Account
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    It is just a fleeting dream. I will die anyway eventually. We all will.

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  • Truthatanycost
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    Faith in the Father! I've seen miracles and have had things turn around through faith. Even in business deals that looked like they were about to fail completely, keeping the faith has transformed them where it makes zero sense in the physical plane.

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  • hahahmm
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    Knowing that my ancestors must have faced much more difficult lives for eons and they never gave up and only because they didn't give up am I here and it would be disrespecting their sacrifice to give up.

    Some people have this spirit. Some are talking about how if there's a war/famine they will just kill themselves. I don't get the second type.

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  • Screenwriter
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    Waking up each day, having a paying job to do, having projects I'm interested in, my garden, writing poetry, my relatives, friends, seeing another full moon and blue sky, bird watching, contributing to my community.

    So many things!!! Life is exciting.

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  • Lynx122
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    In general things keep getting better in my life I progress slowly but steadily. I'm good at setting goals that are not too easy and not too difficult so I always have a direction to head in and there's a lot of positive experiences. There's also difficulties but I think just having a positive mindset makes a huge difference in how you experience everyday life.

    Today I made fajitas with crispy chicken, was tasty :)

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  • Miristheiss
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    My life is going well, I have a paid off home, a wife, two kids, interests I like.

    No reason to feel like giving up. Faith also helps in times of struggle. To know there is an ultimate purpose and to know your circumstances are only temporary.

    Everyone only has that brief 5 year to 80 year window and then this time is over here.

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  • MannMitAntworten
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    Knowing that if someone has done it, I sure has hell can too. There is no adversity or task that hasn’t already been done that another cannot do … short of say, solving for some math/science hypothesis or theory. Which is an entirely different conquest.

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  • White_Widow
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    I have no need to give up, change your attitude into a glass is half full, instead of it being have empty. Look at what you do have, instead of what you dont have. It'll make all the difference in the world.

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  • Ez-Bri-Z_v2 u
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    My kids specifically. I know my partners would be devastated if I did give up, but it's my kids that keep me going most even in my darkest moments.

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  • Ironco
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    I'm guessing it was my upbringing. My father always told me to keep my head down and always push forward when times are tough. Then when you get through the tough times, look up and enjoy the view. You made it.

    Works for me... Lord knows I've had my share of tough times, but I keep going.

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  • NathanDavis m
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    the people in my life... they're more than worth, that

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  • aromatic_xo
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    What keeps me going is the hope of reaching heaven in the afterlife. I fear that if I give up, I might lose that chance and end up in hell. That thought pushes me to keep moving forward

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  • QuineJessica
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    I don't know... it seems to me that in side I realized that I lost, but I just pretend that it is not so. Life is not like in movies and series...

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  • incorrected
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    For me, giving up means taking my life. There's no point in half-measures. I haven't encountered problems difficult enough to end my life yet, though I've come close.

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  • Subtle_Luminescence
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    Because not working for something makes me feel hollow. Why not make it worth by getting at it?

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  • CupcakeTheDestroyer
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    There’s always change, it can be overwhelming but also exciting. No matter how shit my day is, I know I can always change what I’m doing.

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  • Valdemort
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    Sometimes I don't even really know. I have many siblings who rely on me and I think that - although subconsciously, has been keeping me around.

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  • serious
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    You mean in life or just in the area of love/romance and dating?

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  • Nikki1989
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    The challenge of continuous improvement.

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  • Amii_Hex
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    Honestly my brother probably. Whenever im down he can efficiently cheer me up

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  • NicholasRedone
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    I could fill a book 📚📖
    Its also about one's own self drive or self motivation.

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  • Ms_Facesitter
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    I simply don't see the point in giving up, I don't gain much from that.

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  • Simslover92
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    My family and friends.

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  • kaucky1
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    The opposite gender because I is a boy but I like hermaphradites and I'll suck a girls dick

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  • Peggee4U
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    The basic need to survive.. Believing it will get better

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  • MemeSupreme
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    giving up but it not working leaves a lot of shame

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  • MisterWack
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    Hope, patience, and optimism

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  • Abbycado
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    Mostly family.

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  • AviatorTom
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    Brunettes

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  • Apple1996
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    My kids

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    I have a thirst for life.

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    My wife, and making our lives as good as possible

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  • John_And_Elijah
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    The possibility of that sandwich.

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    • Agape93
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      Earn it

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    What else is their to do.

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  • Connie88
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    I’m stubborn enough to keep going.

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    Hope.

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    God!

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    Self-loathing

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    It’s a better option

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    God ✨

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    Family

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