Do you believe there is no such thing as leagues?

[Anonymous]

[incorrected]

Dating site and hookup site data is clear about selection criteria too. Men will evenly punt for the top 60% of women, whereas women spike entirely over top 20% overall and top 10% for hookups.

Yes, leagues do exist, even if there are exceptions here and there in people's personal choices. Try being a poor, ugly man and getting a woman (any woman) who is HOT... Sure, there are some rare exceptions to that statistical rule, but otherwise it holds true. For women, they can get sex easily, so they don't think there are leagues. Where it gets confusing for them though, is when they can't secure the men they want and don't realise they were just a bit of fun to men with options.

[NathanDavis]

leagues are nonsense

[Ms_Facesitter]

I think there is if you demand the other to have a quality that you refuse to work on to have, yourself

[IslaTheWitch]

of course... they were invented by people with insecurities to excuse their lack of confidence :D

[ohsheeT]

For me no that's because I like myself I'm happy with myself and I don't look at other people as being better or worse than me so I don't go there I'm just a down to Earth man who likes what he likes. I'm not better than anybody else and I'm happy

Now there are people out there that love to put themselves in that category to have that title but they're usually the ones to get divorced and that are so unhappy

[Nikki1989]

There are NO leagues. It is all total baloney and always has been. It is mostly used as an excuse not to approach someone. Weak sauce!

[incorrected]

For women that's true, but if you're not a good looking man, your options are more limited. That's why men believe in "leagues" and women don't. Dating site and hookup site data is clear about selection criteria too. Men will evenly punt for the top 60% of women, whereas women spike entirely over top 20% overall and top 10% for hookups.

[Anonymous]

Without question there's leagues. But that doesn't mean everyone agrees on the leagues. And there is a big disparity between the genders. I've noticed guy have a much more uniform opinion on leagues than women do. This is probably one of the reasons why women fail so much dating. Because women will date men they have no business dating. But they don't see that reality. Or maybe they just don't want to.

[slatyb]

Yes and no. People tend to seek their equal in intelligence, ambition, physical fitness, and emotional maturity. So sure, the people who are successful are going to seek other successful people.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Kinda, leagues might exist in some ways where many people attract each other based on the same levels of attraction but leagues aren't limitations in any way.

[JonCobretti]

There is but it's all relative.

You can be way out of league for one person but mid for another.

[Anonymous]

leagues do exist whether people want them to exist or not

whether leagues should exist or not is an entirely different matter

[zagor]

Yeah "leagues" are a ridiculous generalization of the realities of attraction.

[NicholasRedone]

There are leagues