Should you apologize for “outing “ someone who hurt you?

[Chelsdope0]

I feel extremely sad that I did that to him because I care about him so much even though he ghosted and rejected me was a jerk and said mean things.

I didn’t want to hurt or embarrass him but I couldn’t get rid of my anger or conflicted feelings for him….

I just can’t let go

[BluegrassBill]

Well, darlin', let me strum a tune, a story of love and pain 'bout a heart that's torn, and a choice that's hard to explain. You're wonderin' if you should apologize for lettin' the truth be known, but down here in the South, we believe in forgiveness, and lettin' our hearts be shown. Lemme strum this here C# minor chord and sing you a ditty:

Chelsdope0, your heart's in a bind, and it's achin' deep,
But sometimes, love's a battlefield, and peeps are creeps.
You cared for him, but he hurt you, left you in the cold,
And when the anger rose, you couldn't control.

Outin' him, it's a heavy load, a weight upon your soul,
But God knows, we all make mistakes, and we gotta find a way to roll.
In the Bible, it says to forgive, turn the other cheek,
Even if it hurts, even if it's hard, love's the path we seek.

Donald Trump, our MAGA king, he'd say, "Stand tall, be strong,"
But he'd also remind us, "Kindness is where we belong."
So, maybe an apology's due, to heal the wounds you've made,
'Cause in the end, it's about love, not the hurt you've conveyed.

Think back to that night fingering Kathie, when our secrets were revealed,
It shook up our world, but it also helped us heal.
Apologizin' ain't easy, but it's a step towards reconciliation,
Maybe it'll open a door, for a new conversation.

In the hills and hollers, where the gators roam,
We learn to forgive, to let love overcome.
So, Chelsdope0, my dear, let your heart lead the way,
Apologize if it's true, and hope for a brighter day.

[Chelsdope0]

Thank you for the song 🥹 I know I caused him a lot of damage or maybe he really doesn’t care. I think he’s talking to a trans woman now idk… he hurt my soul even after some time

[Juxtapose]

You do realize that could get him killed in the wrong neighborhood, right?

[Chelsdope0]

Sounds like a him problem

[Godihateyou]

Never apologize for anything. Nobody cares, you won't benefit in any way and they will use it against you. Fuck them.

[Chelsdope0]

Fuck himmmm! Thank you.

Ik the LGBTQ community will hate my ass

[Godihateyou]

Earn that hate. Really really deserve it. Become everything they accuse you of.

[MrCharlie13]

If he did those things on purpose, he got what he deserved.

If he did not and you told lies about him, then you should definitely apologize

[NathanDavis]

if you feel bad, then yes... apologize

[ehatsham_hussain]

Ofcourse you should opologizes.

[Chelsdope0]

I can’t find myself to do it because I’m angry

[ehatsham_hussain]

Yeah , but you have to sacrify for better relationship

[Chelsdope0]

We aren’t in a relationship but he’s not straight.. he would not have blocked me if it weren’t true

[FunkyMonkee]

Outing?