How do I get my friends with benefits to fall for me?

[Danniw1231]

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1 y

No I'm really not confused at all I know the boundaries and I understand what I'm doing I just really like him a lot and I just feel like maybe it's something that I'm not doing that's making it to why it's only what it is maybe it's my own insecurities I don't know I was just trying to get some advice that's all

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1 y

Let me also add that he's not closed to not having a relationship I'll probably should have mentioned that It just seems like he's not interested in having that with me I think my better question is how do I come off more appealing and get his attention in other ways than just being fuckable or have I already ruined that option with us because of being friends with benefits?

[Benlovegs]

I guess bottom line it depends what this guy really wants in his life. Do you know he doesn’t see other friends with benefits? Does he want to get married? have kids? What if wasn’t into that is more into open relationship and having fun. I guess communication is key to your question. Sit with him and talk. Ask him these questions however be prepared to hear “no” there are no rules here. I have friends that are married from meeting on Tinder. Talk with him about your feelings and thoughts, best of luck

[7Phoenix7]

The whole point of friends with benefits is to avoid the relationship stuff... what are you doing? lol

You need to stop having sex with him and find someone to be in a relationship with.

[Nikki1989]

I think you are confused over what a friends with benefits really is.

[jahaims]

He doesn't want to commit to a cum rag

[Flower7]

You don’t…

[msc545]

Ask him to do that.