Why should men trust women?

[Ifdyourmom]

[Anonymous]

Trust is earned. You have to trust if you're going to have a healthy relationship. But again that trust is earned. You should trust until she's given you good reason not to.

[Ifdyourmom]

Why though. Isn't it earned, not given?

[Opinion Owner]

It is initially. But a guy should be doing his homework with a woman. You don't meet a woman an then ask her out 2 minutes later do you? No of course not! So you taking in all the information you can to make an educated choice. Once you start dating her you should already have enough reason to trust her. But from then on she's either building or eroding trust.

[Ifdyourmom]

I hear women want to be asked out pretty quickly

[Opinion Owner]

Some do. Those women typically are not worth asking out. A quality woman properly vets a man. The women that you're describing are emotional rollercoaster riders.

[Ifdyourmom]

I don't know

[BarryLiverstone]

To function well in society people must trust others.

[Ifdyourmom]

You'd think, right?

[BarryLiverstone]

Yup it’s the truth

[BarryLiverstone]

On a highway you trust the other drivers not to cross lanes and collide with you head on.

[Ifdyourmom]

I wish

[lucy901]

Yes, but not all women

[Ifdyourmom]

I asked why men should trust women