Why do many men no longer trust women?

[es20490446e]

Mostly because women have much lower standards than they used to, and nobody stops them

Mostly because men liked women to do as they liked, and women no longer see a reason to do so

Both alike

[JosyJosy]

They're scared to waste their time. Social media doesn't really help, they put bad women in the spotlight. Or like a friend of mine they just going for the wrong ones. Right now he's dated 3 abusive women and ignored my warnings for some reason. Another problem is giving someone trust when they haven't earned it.

So if guys keep hearing and seeing about that, they're gonna think "is it even worth it?" or "women are all the same"

The good ones aren't put in the spotlight by the media, so we get the impression that "all the good ones are taken", which isn't true at all of course.

[es20490446e]

What warnings did you give him?

[JosyJosy]

I told him exactly what she's doing to him but nope he wouldn't leave. Abusive 1 was mental, second one was physical, now it's a mentally abusive one again

[es20490446e]

Well, one time it is a mistake. Three times it is a choice 😌

[Lliam]

Those guys are afraid of human interaction. They're timid.

They think women are a different species that is more treacherous than men.

Social media influencers have given them a negative opinion of women in general.

They don't know how to assess people. They choose the wrong women. They allow themselves to be used and then blame the women for their own bad judgement or behavior.

I'm not saying that there aren't any opportunistic women out there. But they don't represent the entire gender. There are a whole lot of good people in the world, both male and female.

[es20490446e]

Interesting point 🤔

[Shamalien]

It’s not that they are more treacherous, it’s that we are more susceptible to their treachery, so we must be careful.

[es20490446e]

@Shamalien How are they more susceptible?

[Shamalien]

You mean how are we as men more susceptible to female treachery than male? Does that even need to be asked? Most men have a common weakness, women

[es20490446e]

@Shamalien And women have a common weakness, men :D

So they need me too. If they don't behave they get no meat :P

[Shamalien]

LOL yes so women are more susceptible to male treachery, this question is about why men don’t trust women tho and there are good reasons not to

[Anonymous]

I can't speak for all guys but all the women close to me are high quality women. This is both a blessing and a curse. A blessing because I know what a quality woman looks and behaves like. A curse because there are actually so few quality women anymore.

I don't blame feminism directly but I think it's an unintended consequences of feminism. I think the majority of women have no idea what a good man is anymore. So they fall back on thier programming (upbringing+base desires) and based on most women's upbringing that is a self defeating plan.

[es20490446e]

Thanks for such great answer 👍

[Anonymous]

I thought I fucked around a lot but I found out most of my friends do too.

[LiamJHayden]

I trust men and women who show they are worthy of that trust. Before that, I'll be courteous, but will not extend trust.

[es20490446e]

Fair enough.

[RolandCuthbert]

It is kind of hard to understand the question. I trust my lady. But I don't know why that would translate into some trust of all women.

I trust the ones I know and love. I don't need to worry about anything beyond that.

[es20490446e]

Fair enough.

[Anonymous]

Neither. Its because women just aren't women any more. In the words of my sister in law, "Sure women can do what men can do, but thats not our job, Our job is to do what men cannot do" The more they try to be men, the more they will find that they can't find men who want them.

[es20490446e]

Your sister in law knows about the laws of attraction.

[Opinion Owner]

Agreed

[NathanDavis]

because they don't trust themselves as men...

[es20490446e]

How?

[NathanDavis]

exactly what @Lliam said... lol

or simply put, the weaker men have it worse, way worse

weaker mindsets, that is

[es20490446e]

You guys are smart. Happy to have you around.

[exitseven]

It does not seem much different than it was 30 years ago

[es20490446e]

When was the last time you tried to date?

[exitseven]

I think 1994.

[Anonymous]

Because women like.

They say the look for love but really they are looking for security.

They say looks and size don't matter but they do.

They manipulate your emotions to get what they want.

[Bethany22]

probably B

[es20490446e]

Why would you say so?

[Bethany22]

it's just what I've heard men say

[Summeroflove]

Well. Trust takes time with anyone

[es20490446e]

Probably.

[Summeroflove]

You can’t just trust anyone you know

[es20490446e]

Probably what happens today is that everything happens way too fast.

[Summeroflove]

Yes and I do try to see the best in people. But I also have to be careful

[MikeInHawaii]

Forty years of experience!

[es20490446e]

You are funny :P