How can people still trust men?

[chocolatetwopointo]

have u heard the Gabby Petito case? one among thousands of cases where the husband/boyfriend/fiance kills the woman their with, how can we still trust men, when so many do this? one of many reasons i dont date.

[Lliam]

Fewer than 1,100 women were murdered by intimate partners in 2023.
There are 97,250,000 men between ages 20 and 65. Apparently very few of those men are murdering their partners.

A woman has a greater chance of dying from an accidental fall or in an auto accident. And they have a much, much greater chance of dying from cancer.

So fear of being murdered by an intimate partner is quite paranoid.
It's a good thing that most heterosexual women love men and aren't irrationally fearful.

[chocolatetwopointo]

thats a lot of women. thats probably what they thought.

[Lliam]

There are 96,850,000 women between the ages of 20 and 65. 1 in 88,000 were murdered by an intimate partner.
2,750 were murdered by strangers in 2022.
12,560 women over 14 years of age died in automobile collisions.
Should women not go outside or ride in cars?

[chocolatetwopointo]

still terrifying. thats what the men probably thought too, but i said men bc im not a lesbian and would no date a woman

[HawkPerception]

Imagine hating on an entire population of people. You're one hell of a misandrist. You're really broadcasting your immaturity. One day you'll grow up... maybe.

[chocolatetwopointo]

if i could trust u, why r u offended?

[HawkPerception]

That response makes zero sense

[chocolatetwopointo]

omfg, why are u offended if ur trustworthy? unless u aren't?

[natured]

That is... SOME MEN that are psychotic, and for you to say this is one of many reasons that you don't date is a little bit concerning to me... also you are 16 you are not supposed to day you should focus on school and your future. Don't bother thinking about Men and I have good news for you, there are WONDERFUL men out here that treat women like queens, I'm one of them and trust me, it's worth it if you only know HOW TO PICK WISELY... stay safe and stay in school please

[chocolatetwopointo]

more than js some honey, yeah exactly, js saying bc people r saying i should date for some reason. those men r simps, id kms if a man like that liked me. id rather js stay single tbh

[Apple1996]

1 in every 3 women experience physical or sexual violence from their male partners. Those are the ones who have speaked up about it. The number is probably even higher. It's fr scary 😔

[Apple1996]

med.emory.edu/.../domestic_violence.html
Some scary stats here

[chocolatetwopointo]

terrifying

[Ariesman81]

@Apple1996 That's a lot of women who don't listen.

[Agape93]

Or a lot of men who can't handle shit like normal people.

[Ariesman81]

@Agape93 Normal people? You mean those arguing with a brick wall. I'd rather spend my night correcting bad behavior.

[Agape93]

So you would rather be an abuser?

[Ariesman81]

@Agape93 If it gets her to act right. After all, it's not dumb if it works.

[Agape93]

Except it doesn't work, it just makes people afraid and opens you up to being arrested.

[Ariesman81]

@Agape93 I'll first bump the judge on my way in then.

[Agape93]

And that's how you get tackled by a bailiff. Also FYI, people in prison don't like punks who beat women. They're just barely better than chomos

[Ariesman81]

@Agape93 Punks in prison chose women who call the cops

[Agape93]

Like you would have. And the other convicts will happily turn you into their punk.

[Ariesman81]

@Agape93 well... looks like we're done here then

[Agape93]

Exactly. Fuck off my friends post.

[Agape93]

I can because 99% of men in my life are good people.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah in ur life, but think about all of them out there. there's probably 1000x more men than yk out there, so how do yk who to trust?

[Agape93]

Background checks and experience with them. Trust takes time and a spine.

[chocolatetwopointo]

not risking it

[Agape93]

I don't blame you

[Agape93]

Ignore Jessyjoy.

[SolitarySolace]

Judging all men based on the actions of a few is just as irrational as judging all women based on the actions of female criminals. Trust should be based on individual character, not broad generalizations. The vast majority of men are good, trustworthy people. This kind of mindset only creates unnecessary division.

- Eva ❤️

[chocolatetwopointo]

stop saying ”- Eva ❤️” u look stupid.

can't know that tho.

[Anonymous]

Because less than 1% of men kill their partner. Women also kill their partners, should we not trust women? No because just like men, less than 1% of women kill their partner. You have a greater chance of dying from a heart attack than you do being killed by your partner.

[chocolatetwopointo]

this question is off of me personally by the way.
men do it more than women do. can't control a heart attack, but i can control not being killed by my partner, by not dating. im not taking that chance.

[Opinion Owner]

Actually you can control a heart attack. If you're at risk of having a heart attack you can take steps to prevent a heat attack from happening.

[chocolatetwopointo]

oh well, good to know. scratch that then

[Anonymous]

How can people still trust women?

https://www.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fi.redd.it%2F2g1s1scfkfdb1.jpg&rdt=61406

See what I did there? Pretty dishonest and immature, huh?

[Anonymous]

Grow the hell up and stop generalizing. You are def one sad person.

What about the wives or girlfriends who hire hitmen on their husbands?

Grow the hell up.

[chocolatetwopointo]

and what ab the thousands of men who kill their wives? huh?

[Opinion Owner]

You're an unhinged feminist with lack of brain cells. There are shitty people but it doesn't mean everyone is. If its such a tough choice then don't fucking date and become a nun.

[chocolatetwopointo]

so wanting equality is wrong now? I've alr said i dont date lmao💀seems like u got a little triggered.

[Opinion Owner]

Feminism is not about equality anymore. It's about brainless women like you generalizing and claiming all men are bad. You are like the female version of an incel men who hate women lol.

[chocolatetwopointo]

so ur saying i shouldn't b scared at all?

[Agape93]

Dude seriously, shut the fuck up and stop attacking a minor. Want her to grow up? Then lead by example and fuck off

[JessyJoy]

@Agape93 Sometimes, you need to be harsh to a minor who is already brainwashed and dumbed down by feminism.

[Agape93]

Bitch I am a feminist. But a grown ass man doesn't need to be attacking a child.

[JessyJoy]

@Agape93 If you are a feminist then you are a lost cause. Just like zionists.

[Agape93]

Then don't waste my time tagging me to shit
Fuck off

[JessyJoy]

@Agape93 Poor animal.

[NathanDavis]

I trust men, and women...

I trust people, just not all of the people

[chocolatetwopointo]

and how do yk who to trust?

[NathanDavis]

well... unfortunately, only time can tell, and yeah, to a certain point it is a risk you take

I've had friends and family who are still there after 30 years, 20 years or so...

few, are not

[JessyJoy]

Because we are brought to existence by men. Duh.

[chocolatetwopointo]

and women lmao💀

[JessyJoy]

Your subject was about men. Now you are switching to women?

[chocolatetwopointo]

yes.. bc women AND men brought us to existance..

[Anonymous]

then don't trust any man ever again and see where that gets you in life

[chocolatetwopointo]

ill probably come far, never get my heart broken, get a good career, and be single, basically exactly what i want lmao

[Opinion Owner]

I don't think you understand the implications of such. men have the total monopoly on force. they have access to the vast majority of resources and maintain all the important physical jobs that maintain the infrastructure. you wouldn't survive without men

most cops are men, most soldiers are men, most firefighters are men, most farmers are men, most construction workers are men, most electricians are men, most miners are men, most plumbers are men, most mechanics are men, most engineers are men, most doctors are men, heck most pest control are men

what are you gonna do when there's a cockroach infestation at your place? call a man?

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay? im talking ab myself. not society. im not retarded, ik as a society we need both.
id call someone, but im paying them so i expect them to help, so i dont need to trust them. and if they dont do their job ill sue.
same goes for any of those other jobs, i dont need to trust any of those.

[Gwendoline]

It's women i don't trust.

[chocolatetwopointo]

why’s that?

[Gwendoline]

Women are a lot meaner and a lot more dangerous than men.

[chocolatetwopointo]

what makes u think that? i agree with the meaner part tho, but the second thing

[JessyJoy]

No one hates a woman more than another woman.

[Gwendoline]

An awful lot of women will hurt you if they can, destroy your life especially if there's no consequences and no one will find out. I would be wary of the opinion or advice of another woman that wasn't my mother or sisters.

[Gwendoline]

@JessyJoy especially if they think you are foing better than them, better husband, younger, skinnier, better behaved kids.

[Rohaan2020]

Not dating is the right decision

[69Lonely69]

not everyone is the same

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay, but its still some. those women probably thought ”oh its not gonna be him” until it was too late

[msc545]

ok - date women.

[chocolatetwopointo]

not a lesbian sadly