Forgiving a cheater man is like giving him an extra bullet because he missed destroying you the first time. Agree?

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Never forgive a cheater because if he can cheat on you once, he can always and always cheat on you multiple times, break your heart and destroy you completely as a person the more longer you stay with him. The best way is to detach. Detach from him completely in a way that he don't have a single access to your life and focus on your improvement and betterment of your life surrounding yourself with better people, better men, making better choices.

If required, fall in love with a better man to forget that cheater man. That cheater man doesn't deserve anything from you further. Let his cheating be the reason he loses you permanently. If you forgive a cheater, it means you don't love yourself. If you have at least a bit of love on yourself, never ever forgive a cheater man. This is how you set boundaries and stop caring about them. Start focusing on God, goals and life. It will make you as a better person. Don't be a slave of sex with a cheater. Sex with a cheater is the destruction of your own life. Agree?

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Will I forgive someone? Yes staying mad at someone who doesn’t even care you’re mad won’t do any good. I will forgive but that individual will not be part of my life again and if they’re someone I HAVE to interact with it will be civil but with boundaries.

I will say this cheating is one of those things you cannot come back from. Most of the times once you catch someone cheating once they did it a million other times you never knew about they are most of the time very sneaky the first time they do it but over time they keep getting away with it and become brazen. You only know about the times you caught them…. If you’re lucky you may catch them the first time.

Do good people make some bad choices sometimes? Yes it happens but good people feel horrible. But despite that I’m not the judge of someone’s heart that’s between themselves and God. But that doesn’t mean they should be allowed back into your life to hurt you again.

If you are loyal you deserve a loyal person allow that person to run off with someone who cheated with them…. Those two people will deserve one another.

Staximus · Accepted Answer

It doesn't matter if it's a woman or a man. If you forgive a cheater and take them back, you are basically telling them it's okay for them to cheat and you will tolerate it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You’re not wrong, but…

My dad cheated on my mom off and on again for almost twenty years. Then he had his midlife crisis and now he’s a changed man. He loves her and he says he has no desire to cheat on her ever again. So I guess sometimes cheaters can change, even if it’s not on the first chance (or the second).