I did forgive a cheater. Cheating is bad but… cheating is also a very human thing to do. So many people cheat, if like the rapture all the people in the world who have cheated just disappeared it would be a very lonely world.
Here is the problem though… the act of cheating (the physical part) isn’t that big of a deal at least not compared to the cheater falling in love with the person he/she was cheating with. Falling in love is when everything comes crashing down especially if one or both are married.
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No, I think once someone has cheated there will always be doubt and distrust in the relationship. If I can’t fully trust the person I am with then I don’t want to stay in that situation. I believe a lot of situations can lead to someone to seek ‘comfort’ and attention elsewhere and if a resolution can’t be reached prior to the act then I don’t see the relationship working out going forward. I’ve been on all three sides of that coin, I’m not proud but I know for myself that if I’ve reached the point of sleeping with someone else my relationship is over and I have no intention of going back.
Depends.. like if my husband cheated on me.. yeah I could forgive him because our friendship runs deep and he has always been there for me when I truly need him, even when I am a bitch.
But if I was with someone else, especially if I was super in love with them.. no way..
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I don't bear a grudge towards my ex-wife who cheated on me, because anger is like a cancer, but. . . I'll never forget what she did to me.
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Yes I can. But he’s out of my life. No second chances. She can keep him!
Honestly I’ve never been in that situation so I can’t say one way or the other. I would like to say no but I do believe there is a difference between someone who comes clean versus someone who does not. I am 31 and have been in multiple relationships and have not been cheated on, the only one that might hold true to was when I was 19 but he broke up with me (I know he liked another girl but I don't know how far they went prior to the relationship ending)
Nah, never. I can pretty much forgive her for every mistake she does other than cheating. This is unforgivable for me, the only thing ill never forgive. Even if i love her so much. Ill probably never forget her, cry the entire day for at least 6 months and get a huge major depression but its better than being with her again.
Well the ho would be lucky if I didn't killed her, not I am not going to forgive the ho, no way.
Forgive but don’t forget!
Id forgive them, but definitely wouldn’t stay together with him. We clearly have different mindsets on what it means to be in a relationship.
no.
My ex wife cheated, and we got divorced right after, and I had an ex girlfriend that cheated hence the ex part of ex girlfriend.Yes. I would just start to see cheating as a competition an my physical assets allow me to play in world class league in this questionable discipline.
Am i crazy? No, not yet. Of course i wouldn't.
No. Cheating is unforgivable. I might not hate the person but I definitely wouldn’t date them again.
If it's just something like fucking the stripper at a bachelorette party, then I really don't have a problem with it. TBH, cheating isn't a deal breaker for me
Actually, I can forgive cheating in a relationship quite easily. It honestly isn't a deal breaker for me.
Not immediately. Depends on the circumstances and if he shows genuine regret and is willing to outgrow his mistakes.
Depends what you mean by forgive. I would forgive the act, I wouldn't forgive the betrayal and that would be the end.
there's no mercy from me when it comes to traitors
No I’ll never talk to a girl if she cheated on me she’s dead to me simple as that.
No if someone love u cannot cheat u. But if he cheated u before then u forgive him and cheated him. It’s different. Revenge 🤔
Nope. Once a cheater, always a cheater. The same goes with liars and thieves.
Yeah I don’t really hold grudges since nothing good comes from anger
I've been forgiven for getting a blowjob by her best friend. This os my experience
No, absolutely not.
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