Could you forgive a cheater?

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Mamaliv · Accepted Answer

No, I think once someone has cheated there will always be doubt and distrust in the relationship. If I can’t fully trust the person I am with then I don’t want to stay in that situation. I believe a lot of situations can lead to someone to seek ‘comfort’ and attention elsewhere and if a resolution can’t be reached prior to the act then I don’t see the relationship working out going forward. I’ve been on all three sides of that coin, I’m not proud but I know for myself that if I’ve reached the point of sleeping with someone else my relationship is over and I have no intention of going back.

Anemone978 · Accepted Answer

Depends.. like if my husband cheated on me.. yeah I could forgive him because our friendship runs deep and he has always been there for me when I truly need him, even when I am a bitch.
But if I was with someone else, especially if I was super in love with them.. no way..

BadApple69 · Accepted Answer

I did forgive a cheater. Cheating is bad but… cheating is also a very human thing to do. So many people cheat, if like the rapture all the people in the world who have cheated just disappeared it would be a very lonely world.
Here is the problem though… the act of cheating (the physical part) isn’t that big of a deal at least not compared to the cheater falling in love with the person he/she was cheating with. Falling in love is when everything comes crashing down especially if one or both are married.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

I don't bear a grudge towards my ex-wife who cheated on me, because anger is like a cancer, but. . . I'll never forget what she did to me.

Pinay_ako · Answer

Yes I can. But he’s out of my life. No second chances. She can keep him!

Rei13 · Answer

Honestly I’ve never been in that situation so I can’t say one way or the other. I would like to say no but I do believe there is a difference between someone who comes clean versus someone who does not. I am 31 and have been in multiple relationships and have not been cheated on, the only one that might hold true to was when I was 19 but he broke up with me (I know he liked another girl but I don't know how far they went prior to the relationship ending)

drwine · Answer

Nah, never. I can pretty much forgive her for every mistake she does other than cheating. This is unforgivable for me, the only thing ill never forgive. Even if i love her so much. Ill probably never forget her, cry the entire day for at least 6 months and get a huge major depression but its better than being with her again.

Berethor · Answer

Well the ho would be lucky if I didn't killed her, not I am not going to forgive the ho, no way.

Dinklex3 · Answer

Forgive but don’t forget! Id forgive them, but definitely wouldn’t stay together with him. We clearly have different mindsets on what it means to be in a relationship.

Fireguy17 · Answer

no. My ex wife cheated, and we got divorced right after, and I had an ex girlfriend that cheated hence the ex part of ex girlfriend.

FreyaRed · Answer

Yes. I would just start to see cheating as a competition an my physical assets allow me to play in world class league in this questionable discipline.

CoolCatMar1 · Answer

Am i crazy? No, not yet. Of course i wouldn't.

WhitneySnow · Answer

No. Cheating is unforgivable. I might not hate the person but I definitely wouldn’t date them again.

Oldschool1981 · Answer

If it's just something like fucking the stripper at a bachelorette party, then I really don't have a problem with it. TBH, cheating isn't a deal breaker for me

billmunch · Answer

Actually, I can forgive cheating in a relationship quite easily. It honestly isn't a deal breaker for me.

sheikalana · Answer

Not immediately. Depends on the circumstances and if he shows genuine regret and is willing to outgrow his mistakes.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends what you mean by forgive. I would forgive the act, I wouldn't forgive the betrayal and that would be the end.

inhua · Answer

there's no mercy from me when it comes to traitors

Chris123432169 · Answer

No I’ll never talk to a girl if she cheated on me she’s dead to me simple as that.

okkidokki · Answer

No if someone love u cannot cheat u. But if he cheated u before then u forgive him and cheated him. It’s different. Revenge 🤔

Staximus · Answer

Nope. Once a cheater, always a cheater. The same goes with liars and thieves.

Lokiion · Answer

Yeah I don’t really hold grudges since nothing good comes from anger

Anonymous · Answer

I've been forgiven for getting a blowjob by her best friend. This os my experience

EmmaMary · Answer

No, absolutely not.

SnowedIn · Answer

Yes, I could.

Anonymous · Answer

No, if you broke my trust we really have nothing left to fix

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Nope i can't because cheating has no excuse!

jahaims · Answer

No, I have self respect

BLP11520 · Answer

No I would not

teamvic · Answer

Hell no

wishiwasfiction · Answer

No I couldn't

Kelly6 · Answer

Yes I can forgive

Minahh · Answer

Ew no that's disgusting

shortster · Answer

Maybe forgive; but definitely not going back.

Mansearching · Answer

Haven't yet.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Nope.

SeaStorm1 · Answer

nope i never will

serious · Answer

No. Never.

Anonymous · Answer

God can but I cannot

tzdc21 · Answer

Nope.

sheenagwapa · Answer

i don't know

Agape93 · Answer

Nope

eagle1951 · Answer

nooo

Viktor001 · Answer

Nope.

Anonymous · Answer

No wtf

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